What does it mean if a guy tells you that he wants to have a threesome with you? Keep in mind that this guy is not my man and I really just met him. I know it means just that but it makes me think he thinks I'm a freak or that I'm good in bed. It also makes me think he thinks low of me. I don't really know.
2007-01-07 09:15:30 · 15 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If someone truly loves or respects you ... they wouldn't want to share you with anyone. He doesn't respect you ...
2007-01-07 09:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what his motives are, and if you have just met him, and really have no emotional investment in him, why do you care what he thinks anyway. I think he is fishing for a threesome, throwing his net out and seeing what he catches. I think he is a player.
That said, there is nothing wrong with a threesome if it is what all three people want and nobody is being manipulated or coerced into it. I've been in many and I've never thought less of any woman that has done it.
2007-01-07 10:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Heaven26,
Naturally, you should talk to this guy to find out for sure. But, I would imagine that he thinks that you're hot, and would love to get together with you and his main squeeze. Just a guess. I don't think that guys think that girls are skanks, and use this as a criteria for a threesome. He's got to like you (or maybe it's his girlfriend that thinks you're hot) too. I'm personally amazed that he had the balls to ask you, but I guess that this is the way you get to have a threesome.
--Rick
2007-01-07 09:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Better that you are not to emotionally attached. That's how I tried first time. I did with a girlfriend that I had been inside of already and her friend from her condo development that I met for the first time earlier in the night. They had me get naked and lay down on the bed. Then they took turns performing oral for few minutes. Then one sat on my face and the other my penis facing back to back. When I made both of them *** they switched and they both rode till again climaxing. Couldn't have been any better for first time trying.
2016-09-01 10:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Scott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I would say this guy thinks lowly of you or he is hoping eventually to "get lucky with a girl who is down with it." I would just move on and resist his twisted advances.
2007-01-07 09:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by avid_rafter765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell what he is thinking only whether you want to or not. It's not all it's cracked up to be, just alot of waiting around for your turn! LOL
2007-01-07 09:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think little of him for asking Stay far away from him
2007-01-07 09:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kathryn K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just taking the chance to see if you're easy...it sounds as if he's got nothing to lose so he probably just figured..hey there's a chance (because there are alot of girls out there that would).
obviously, don't do it unless you want to.
2007-01-07 09:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean anything really. He's probably ask that of lots of women hoping he'll get lucky.
2007-01-07 09:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying his luck and checking how you would react, just be straight forward about how you feel about it.... he will then change whatever he thinks of you.
2007-01-07 09:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by toffee-ettes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋