HE IS NO GOOD AND I CAN’T WAIT TO GET HIM OUT OF MY LIFE. I DON’T WANT TO TELL HIM STRAIGHT UP CAUSE HE ALWAYS SAYS HE WILL KILL HIMSELF AND HOW HE IS SO DEPRESSED..AND I KNOWN HIM MOST OF MY LIFE I CARE NOT TO SEE HIM DEATH BUT I REALLY WANT HIM OUT OF MY LIFE FOR GOOD!
ANY IDEAS HOW I CAN DRIVE HIM BREAK UP WITH ME?
2007-01-07 09:11:03 · 20 answers · asked by unverified 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i broke up with him before he cried and he is a complete drama queen!
2007-01-07 09:15:18 · update #1
start being really annoying like calling him in the middle of the night. don't talk long, and say you have to go. then call him back in five minutes and then one minute later say you have to go. do this many times so he can't sleep. do this every night until as long as it takes.
if he stops answering the phone, leave a ton of non ending, annoying messages.
key thing: don't stop bothering him until he can't stand you anymore.
2007-01-07 09:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Chelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He tells you this to keep you with him. Tell him that you do not want to be with someone that is always thinking of killing their self and one that is depressed all the time. Tell him you have your own goals in life and he is holding you back. Also tell him that if he keeps treatening to kill him self that your going to the police and swear out a complaint and have him picked up on a mental health warrant, they will commit him to a hospital for a few months. Might not be a bad idea any way. He apparently is a treat to him self and others. Get away from him, he is bringing you down with him. If he does something to him self, he did it, you did not, not your fault. Hurry!! before it is to late.
2007-01-07 17:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey DO NOT let a man keep you at his side with "I'm gonna kill myself" talk. Walk away now. Tell him you don't want to be wit someone that simply can't exist without you. You need a man that's strong enough to handle you! If he is dumb enough to commit suicide, then DO NOT allow yourself to feel one ounce of blame. You are NOT responsible for his actions. HE IS. His depression can and will suck you down so do yourself a favor and get out now whle you can. Good luck!
2007-01-07 17:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a "head" problem and it's not YOUR problem. Just tell him that you do not want to see or talk to him any longer. Most of the time the "I'm gonna kill myself" line is just desperation and certainly doesn't make him any more attractive to anyone. Run away fast! You are doing exactly what he wants you to do .... stay at any cost. Don't do it!!!
Cheers!
2007-01-07 17:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by tublugator08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from the EXACT same situation, you cannot let him control you with threats of suicide. If you respond to them, he'll know he always has control over you. It's hard, especially because you don't want to be responsible if he actually follows through with it. Tell his friends, or his parents, and be honest with him about how he's making you feel. Be strong through this, you will make it.
2007-01-07 17:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by Spiderman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick fights with him and don't resolve them until you sit down with him and say, "I don't know how this is going to work, I can't agree on you with anything. Maybe we should split ways." If he doesn't agree, keep on doing it, be harsh, mean, make him hate you and he'll realize that he doesn't want you anymore. That's the only way I could think of.
2007-01-07 17:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by The Small Elephant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you cheated on him?
I am sorry you are in this situation, but you can't keep thinking about him, you have to start thinking about what will make you happy. He says he will kill himself but he won't. It's just his way of making you feel sorry for him. girl don't let him do that to you, you deserve to be happy.
2007-01-07 17:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck his best friends d!ck right in front of him. That will make him break up with you for sure!
But if he kills himself (like a little pu$$Y) you're obligated to go to the funeral. (not necessarily sober)
2007-01-07 17:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by white.devil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he kills himself cos you leave, then dont feel bad, its not your fault. You shouldnt have to be miserable cos some loser says crap like that to you...
2007-01-07 17:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
um do you know about stuff that he doesnt like well if you do you should just start doing them and maybe it will help well good luck
2007-01-07 17:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by jesdur805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋