my boyfriend broke up with me on friday becuse he relised that he didn't love me as he thought he did. More like obession and lust he told me.
I love him so much---and he doesn't love me back.
Even worse, all my friends always thought me and would be togethear, we were perfect togethear.
friday, I was crying and a little bit on saturday. Now I just feel emotionless/sad.
I don't feel anger, I am not crying, or guilt.
I know sooner or later, I will end up bursting out my feelings. So what should I do NOW so I don't end up there?
2007-01-07 08:55:02 · 5 answers · asked by myself 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call up one of your friends and vent to them. After you tell him/her everything, not to mention their comforting words, you will feel a million times better. It won't be perfect, but it's a start.
2007-01-07 08:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by No O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats how he feels then you cant change his feelings/mind. there is no cure for a break up!
the only thing you can do is tell him ur feelings and tell him everything, BUT what i found what helped was to write everything down and then that way this person will have everything and can keep reading it and you can always look bk on what you are writing/saying.
write it all down what you want to say and give him it, then walk away, that way he has got time to read it to himself, after that its all a waiting game to see weather or not he will get bk to you, but from the moment you give him ur thoughts accept in ur mind that it is over and then that way you are ready for the worse.
do what i said, sounds silly but a person can keep going over it when its on paper, then walk away and leave it up to him.
the cure is time, and hope.
2007-01-07 17:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by ice_castles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you pour out your feelings now otherwise, those feelings will come on and off, and it will take longer to move on completely..
2007-01-07 16:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by vincent m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him mad by getting with somone, and act like u dont even care about the breck up
2007-01-07 16:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tonya Sizemore 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pour them out now.. fels much better
2007-01-07 16:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by obvlious56 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋