Do women care if you last long in bed? I mean as long as you get them to orgasm in other ways. For the last year I haven’t been able to last very long at all. But I'm very good at getting women to orgasm orally and with my fingers(sorry if that sounds crude). Is a women satisfied to just orgasm, or would she rather orgasm from the man lasting a long time?
2007-01-07 08:31:26 · 19 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think as long as you care about their needs (you obviously do) and have a good time ~~~ all is well.
2007-01-07 08:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very satisfying love life and my husband doesnt last long in bed either. As long as the quality is good, i dont believe the length of the interlude should matter. We go for hours (sorry that sounds crude too) but just because he is finished quick doesnt make it a bad experience. I have heard from Dr. Ruth (on TV) that the average man only lasts 2mins.. sooooooo rock on dude!! Good luck!
2007-01-07 08:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by snowbunny67ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women care, though I'm sure they appreciate your effort afterwards.
It's a much more special experience if the two of you can climax together.
Some women don't need an extremely long time. If you're with one who does, try to bring her almost all the way with foreplay before you begin intercourse.
Consider practicing taking longer by slowing down when you feel you are beginning to climax. You can use this technique during both intercourse and masturbation. My ex told me this worked well for him; he was eventually able to go for about 2 hours.
2007-01-07 08:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Iris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like talent. Sounds like you have some. The only thing better is multiple orgasms. If you can do that, it won't matter how. Oral and digital manipulation is normally foreplay, but if it works.. whos to question it.
Hve fun.
2007-01-07 08:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by David L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman. An orgasm is nice but most women love the intimacy and the closeness the most.
2007-01-07 08:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Erica R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ideally the man would be able to last, but a man who is willing to admit he has this problem and is willing to do whatever necessary to work around it and help his partner out is probably a good catch. I'd rather have that kind of guy than one who only cares what works for him.
2007-01-07 08:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are having trouble getting off to soon then you should masterbate like 15 minutes before having sex. I think women would like both. But if you dont last long then she won't stay long with you. Sex is big when you are trying to start a realtionship. If the sex isnt good then they probably wont be staying around
2007-01-07 08:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the lady and her attitude towards intercourse. Apparently I last too long according to someone I know.
2007-01-07 08:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, want to turn us on, mow the lawn, pay the bills and get a second job. That makes me hot.
2007-01-07 08:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women Complain that some men Orgasm too Fast.
Other Women Complain that some men take a Long time to Orgasm.
WHAT THE F(_)CK DO THEY WANT THEN!!!!!!???????
2007-01-07 08:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋