Why is it that this pairing seems to draw so many looks and comments? My colleagues are really bad for this. If they meet a couple out at a function like a dinner or dance or something, and the one partner is "ugly" or "fat", they always gossip about it. It's never pleasant gossip either, for instance if an unattractive guy is with a nice lady they'll always assume he has loads of money. If the guy is good looking and she looks bad they'll say that he only has her as a "maid" and that he must sleep around. Have any of you noticed this? Do you ever find yourself noticing mismatched couples????
2007-01-07 08:26:24 · 11 answers · asked by LanceMiller77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The people that make those comments are obviously putting someone down to make themselves feel up. I pity people who lack self esteem and need to project their own insecurities onto others around them. Beauty if in the eye of the beholder. Just because a person doesn't measure up to the social definition of beauty that doesn't mean that the person who they are with has not seen past that superficiality and seen the true beauty in their spirit. Have you not met someone and at first you don't find them attractive but after getting to know them fall in love with their spirit and don't even notice what they look like anymore. Just like little kids see their mother's as beautiful because love of another changes your perception of appearance.
2007-01-07 08:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for 28 years. I am 5'10 and he is 5'4 and 12 years older. Every time we are some place public we are subject to gossip. My husband and I always get a kick out this. It just amazes us how so many people are shallow. It's all so silly. I was lucky to learn, at a very young age, that it is the personality that you have to live with and not the looks. People just assume that my husband is a wealthy old man or that he is well endowed. Neither are true. Of course they think I am a gold digger or married my Daddy. It has made for an amusing life.
2007-01-07 08:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I've noticed this and a lot of the times I usually just tell them to shut up about it ( in an educated, polite way) and to find other objects of interest.
2007-01-07 08:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lexy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good day do not imagine u did not u doesn't deserve them bt imagine they doesn't deserve u ...do not project there could b human being who will love u nt u r looks n the more effective the outstanding boy more effective he get allure to 2 the girls folk u doesn't like a boy who seem at different woman even as strolling with u.n beside it u can adjust the adult men who do u hve get entry to n they could also help u enhancing u ,,so ,do not care about them who in consumer-friendly words seem for attractiveness nt for coronary heart..okz suitable off success
2016-12-28 08:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you love each other, you'll look right for each other. Don't worry, people will be saying "O they look cute together" not "What an odd couple."
2007-01-07 08:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - I'm fat and ugly My gf is skinny and pretty We look good together
2007-01-07 08:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
it might look a little strange, but I wouldn't care enough to talk or gossip about it. Its their business.
2007-01-07 08:28:53 · answer #7 · answered by DisneyLover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't, but then again i don't really care why sombodys with someone else. sounds like a bunch of huge losers that don't have anything else better to do
2007-01-07 08:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by k_princess84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur friends are losers...no wonder they ahve to waste time talking about other people's lives
2007-01-07 08:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by A Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love does not see ugly
or fat.
Personality is what counts.
2007-01-07 08:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋