I really like her but she hates me...what should I do!?
There's a girl in my class who I really like. We used to like each other for a while even though we didn’t talk that much. Anyway, it now seems like she really hates me for no reason and I think that she knows that I still like her. When I start talking to her she tries to ignore me... well I don't know what going on cause she asked me last week whether I hate her. Should I just talk to her and ask her whether she doesn't like me tell her that I feel like she ignores me or is it a bad idea?!
2007-01-07 07:59:03 · 12 answers · asked by ari90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She only likes the idea that you like her,
I would suggest to ignore her.
In fact the more you ignore her the more she will try to get your attention.
It is her way to be in control of the situation.
If you are ever near her try to act like you are talking on the phone, she might even grab, and kiss you, just to keep her attention on her.
2007-01-07 08:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by rob u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry much about her ignoring you. Some girls do that when they really like someone-- this is so that the guy
doesn't know that they like them.
You should talk to her and ask her how she feels about you.
2007-01-07 16:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, give it some time like a week or two so she can be more calm and relaxed when you start talking to her again. maybe get to know her more, don't get into a relationship to fast only unless you know your ready to.
anyways,goodluck.
<3
2007-01-07 16:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Yumisaurus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should ask her if she hates you or not, maybe she's misunderstanding you, since she thought you hated her, make it clear to her that you like her and not hate her and then you can show her what kind of guy you really are and see what happens.
2007-01-07 16:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Gorgeous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel. the only thing you lost is the few seconds you took a chance. Hell she might even respect you even more for taking that chance.
2007-01-07 16:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by dkbikespro123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's pretty much it. Do have any idea why she wouldn't like you anymore? Did anything happen to your friendship lately?
2007-01-07 16:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,I think you both have to speak because if someone "ignore" some problem that problem doesn't disappear.Find a way to speak calm and clear.
2007-01-07 16:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should talk to her and fing out what happened between you guys and why she started acting different towards, and after you find out you can take it from there
2007-01-07 16:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to communicate better with this girl. maybe she's shy and has a crush on you or something. or maybe she's just a crabby thing. good luck to you.
2007-01-07 16:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something that will take her breath away that she would never expect. she is probley just going through a depression and she needs you to cheer her up... she just dosn't know it yet :)
2007-01-07 16:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Flordia Keyss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋