I need ur help! I know this older rich guy who likes me a lot
and he wants to mary me!!!! I like talking to him as a friend but nothing else. How do I tell him in a nice way that I don't like him in the marriage way. He has never been married and his health isn't good. I don't want to hurt him in anyway. What should I do?
2007-01-07 07:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by simpli_cute 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well! you are so nice that you don't want to hert anybody and tell him frankly.
you can do one thing.. you can explain him importance of friend in one's life.
sometime friends are better than spouce...
then you can keep your point that you will be better as friend
2007-01-07 22:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just stay calm and, talk to him don't yell. If u think u should marry him and love him then do, but if u don't and just maybe want to be friends just tell him that it would not ever work out between u two, and say you just want to be friends or something. If he will not get of ur back and keeps asking u to marry him, then just forget about him!
2007-01-07 15:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by ♥AloHa* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i were u i would say, "look (and then his name) i just some how think that it is better for u and me 2 just be friends."
He may peplsy back and keep asking u all of these questions like y and all of this other stuff!!!!
2007-01-07 15:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by ~beanie~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight forward, tell him he's nice. But your not interested in him as a "partner". Tell him you think of him more as a brother and you don't want to ruin that.
2007-01-07 19:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by κύριος κτίστης 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with your heart and talk it out with dat guy. tell him how ur parents wud freak out knowing his age and how much you love ur parents so u wud neva go against their wishes ~~this mite wrk~~ reeli ~~
2007-01-07 15:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember Anna Nicole!!! Be honest w/him. He'll have more respect for you if you do and appreciate your honesty .
2007-01-07 15:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Misty D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him tell him you only want to be friends
2007-01-07 15:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you anne nicole? i think not...
ABORT ABORT!!
2007-01-07 15:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Manda K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋