Curious 2 see if i get any more than three proper answers by re-listing an old question which is only 4 ladies

Question

whilst you were in a relationship that at the time was special to you because the guy was different to what you had before and he was completely away from the norm. that you knew before you met this man who for agruments sake we will call bill

whilst you were with bill he really loved you and you loved him too and you told him as much and he knew that when you were together and things were good and blissfully in love he hung on your everyword and in this time when you told him you loved him and if it was something deep and long lasting, and on the assumption that you told him something along the lines of
"I will always love you, you mean so much to me and if we are unlucky and we split in the future then I will come back here to see if you are still here and If and when we break up I would love us to stay friends because you mean so much to me and are such a special person and you are the one guy in the world who can just make everything better with what you say"

& you broke up

he was heart broken and decided in his own mind that it was too much for him to stay friends with you as he couldnt stand hearing you going on about your date with a new bf as he still loves you and a part of him always will and will never forget you
and in the end you get p***** off with him for not staying friends and blame him for making no effort and a few months later you no longer speak at all and even though you have fallen out totally bill has never forgotten you and in his own way is always thinking of you and wondering how you are and even though you broke his heart because you split & he also thinks that you may have been with another guy (not to bed) but been out on a date whilst you were with him because you keep dropping hints about "if in say a year would you still be mates if I had been with another guy and he gave me trouble and would you be there for me"&bill because he loves you and is probably blinded by love says yes

Are you angry for no longer being mates?

thinking about it im probably not going to get a lot of useful answers if the last time was anything to go buy, so if you dont want to answer then please dont

Answer 1

If I am reading between the lines it seems that you and your gf finished even though you were totally in love and thought you would be together forever. You haven't been able to move on and she seems to have moved on. From what you are saying she knows that you are still besotted with her and she is trying to keep you hanging in there in case she ends up lonely.
If I am right - you need to put distance between you otherwise any future relationship you will have will always be doomed to fail as your ex will be there in the background looking over your shoulder.
Let her go as hard as it may seem and start living your life (without her). It takes time but you will get there - good luck

Answer 2

I kinda get the jist of what you mean. That said there are no guarentees in life and as much as i adore and respect my hubby, you just never know whats around the next corner.

Never say never in my book, live life to the max and if something really awful happens just brush yourself down and start again cos ur a long time dead. Never make a promise you cant keep, never tell a person you love them to get them on side or tell them that because its what they want to hear and always wear clean undies.

with that in mind always smile and say bollox to people that talk rubbish. I dont ever take any notice of words alone, it takes actions. So what if you make a promise and it dont work out?? Like i said at the beginning you just dont know whats around the next corner.

So live life and be happy

peace

Answer 3

I'm sure that you (like me) are a very busy person and that is why you have been limited to three trips. Your 5 yr old should understand this. I see nothing wrong with giving the kid 10 bucks and some Rolos and telling him to go see a movie or something. God knows a parent needs their space every now and again.

Answer 4

Wow! All I can say is just move on. It takes time to get over a relationship, and you need time to reflect on who you are (sometimes we forget that when we are part of a couple).
Loves will come and go in your life. You will be amazed at the wealth of experience you gather as time goes by...you will look back and see your own personal growth.
So, in answer to your question, No, don't be angry, just be glad that you shared something with her and quit focusing on it. Look around you and open yourself to other people and experiences. Learn and grow!

Answer 5

Hard to say as I would never to that to anyone, but... Have you told her how you feel? Have you explained it pains you too much? I mean, she sounds plain cruel, but maybe she just doesn't understand? On the other hand, you should move on and find someone else and since you've totally fallen out with her, that should make it easier for you to do instead of lingering.

Answer 6

if you still think about this person so much, you have to ask yourself are you ever going to move on or are you going to spend for ever thinking about the stuff you said to each other? some people are soul mates but cant live together. if you accept this and stop dwelling on who said what and why, you can get on with the future and leave the past behind

Answer 7

wow dude, okay, you don't have to be friends with her just cuz she says so, matter of fact she will not respect you if you are a total pushover and do everything she says....you should move on with your life, that is more attractive than waiting by the phone for her...that is truly the best thing you could do for yourself...
if she really wanted to be friends and meant what she said, she can do the work and be your friend...not expect you to cater to her every whim

Answer 8

shorten the question thing and u will get more answers i want more points but i dont want to read that much!

Answer 9

an ex should remain firmly in the past.

Answer 10

blah!! this is too long.... short attention spans add to your lack of answers