Is this Normal? Knowing that I am better off witout her in my life. I only knew her for 3 weeks. But she really played a number on me.
2007-01-07 07:34:35 · 29 answers · asked by bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there done that. Don't go back, because you will never trust her even if she takes you back, and it is miserable to be with someone who you don't trust no matter how attractive she is.
2007-01-07 07:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by moonman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs to take their own time getting over someone. Some people can do it in a matter of minutes; others take much much longer. I know one guy who spends all his time thinking about the past, goes round telling everyone how much he loved her. he goes for the pitty party when the relationship breaks up, but while in the relationship he won't give the girl the time of day. He will never move on to a normal relationship because this is his game. You were played and that hurts. Just don't waist to much of your time being emotionally played. Move on with your life and find someone right for you.
2007-01-07 15:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you are still thinking about her is because she played a number on you.
I think sometimes we really cannot understand why someone would hurt us and deceive us on purpose.
When it happens it can really stick in your head.
My suggestion is to get angry about what she did, then the lovey feelings are now angry feelings. As soon as I start to get angry, that's when I know the next step is that I will finally stop feeling anything for that person.
2007-01-07 15:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by ♥~Gemma~♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are experiencing a lose and feel so stupid that this happened ..yea it's so normal to even think that.. why did it happen... so do not let this hold you back it should give you insight on not to let it happen again. Please forgive the fact you got taken for a fool and you never know the right girl maybe just around the corner unexpectedly waiting for a faithful guy to care for her.
2007-01-07 15:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understandible. She hurt you. As humans, we have this strange tendancy to go back to the one that hurt us. We want to trust and be trusted. We want to love and be loved. In the end, we do want to forgive and act like nothing happened. It's just the way humans are. I've been in similar situations before. I know it's hard, dude. It will get better--even if it might take a while.
2007-01-07 15:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
play a number on her, turn it into a game and she will play along. The more you interact with her, even if it's in a bad way, the more she will be attached to you. Don't let her go without remembering you.
2007-01-07 15:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal, she is clearly good no I say GREAT at what she does and did, so you should be thinking of her especialy after only three weeks? She is really really good. sorry buddy. Honestly I am sorry...and after all your life exsperinace, 31 years two daughters you shouldnt have been such a moron and been sucked into it, so I am not sorry, but I do feel sorry for you
2007-01-07 15:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by cuetee220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you are thinking of the fake person she pretended to be not the person she really is that played you.
Every time you start thinking of the sweet loving person remember that person was a character she played to get what she wanted.
In time you will move on.Just takes time.
2007-01-07 15:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for you to think about her i mean she played you and that hurts so naturally your going to think about her. but she is not worth a second thought. you can do better than her. go out have some fun and meet some new people before you know it you won't remember her name.
2007-01-07 15:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks or 3 days,time doesn't matter.You had obvious feelings for her.And you still do!Take some time to realize that you need to get over her.If you still want to be with her,then try to patch things up.My suggestion would be to hang out with your friends and try your best not to think of her.We all know it's not as easy!!Good luck hon...hope you find someone who will treat you right!
2007-01-07 15:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by First Lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's normal. There's no telling how long you may think about someone. It doesn't matter how long you knew her, you felt that connection. With more time you will move on and rarely, if never, think about her. Good luck.
2007-01-07 15:36:37 · answer #11 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋