How do you say forgive me, I love you?

Question

Hello, I'm male 15, sophomore in high school.
How do say I'm to someone you really really like, but not directly?
We're not boyfriend or girlfriend, even though we would like to be, our parents are kind of against it until after collage.
More like doing something so that they forgive you.
We were arguing and we're over it, but she's not speaking to me as she has before.
Would time revert it back to normal?
Does anyone have any creative ideas?
I've walked her to her bus before, gave her a rose, and spoke with her.
How should I speak with her on AIM?
Should I immediately talk to her like normal, or slowly speak with her and build up to a friendship again.
If there's any ideas, I'd appreciate it. Please tell me how I could do it.

Answer 1

i would say make her something personal, (like a mix cd of her fave songs or a collage of you two together) and walk her to the bus again and give it to her right as shes about to get on. give it to her and say "im sorry" then let her get on the bus. if she continues ignoring you, then i doubt your relationship will ever be that same, or itll take a while, but if she decides to forgive you, shell probablly hug you right there or the next day. but be sure to give it to her right before she leaves, as to avoid awkwardness.

Answer 2

Hearing things like this makes me realize there is hope for our youth. You are an incredibly sensitive young man and I say that as a compliment. If you're still talking, just not as you did before, then apparently something was said to make her want to be guarded. I would just take her somewhere quiet and tell her exactly what you told us. "Before we had this last ridiculous argument we were able to talk to each other freely, but now our relationship seems strained and I hate it. Can we clear the air so that we can go back to the way it was before, because I really miss that, and I miss you." How's that? Good luck.

Answer 3

Thank you for telling me your age. That makes the question a little easier. Don't take this the wrong way. I'm telling you the truth, not knocking you. At 15 you are still very young. This is one of those tough times you are going through, but believe me, it is temporary. Many more good things will come your way in life. I understand what your parents want for you. They just want you to live a little bit before tying yourself down. Just be patient with your relationship. Let things just happen. Be nice to your friend, but don't force a change. It is my personal opinion that God above has things in our lives happen for a reason. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

Ok

Like I told you on MSN. Time will heal things, but a woman will NEVER forget what somebody has done to them.

But, yes. Talk to her normally. Take things easy. Don't take them to slow, but don't take them fast either. Just take it medium.

AND DO NOT tell either of your parents. That could take a MAJOR toll on the relationship that you have left with her.

And there's nothing different about AIM than real life. So talk to her the way you always do. You don't have to try to impress her.

If she still likes you, she'll let you know, one way or another. So don't sweat it!

Lovez
Abby

Answer 5

Actions speak louder than words, and it sounds like you've tried to show her that you still care. But since her response has been luke warm this is a major hint that you should back away for awhile. Leave her alone and see if she tries to make contact with you first. You may be making her feel too pressured and stress. Let it be... if it's meant to be, it will happen. Take care, you sound like a good kid.

Answer 6

You've talked to her and it's never going to be the same. Accept it and hope that she'll get the feelings back. Don't force it. That will only make it worse.

Answer 7

say : forgive me, I love you

Answer 8

really mean it, with the heart

Answer 9

like nike says "just do it ! "

Answer 10

♥ ♥ you say I love you, please forgive me ♥ ♥