we been together for 9 yrs,married only 1.we got 2 kids.i put on 40 lbs in the past year and i feel my husband is not attreacted anymore.im not really overweight but i feel very big coming up from 115-120.he says i look fine and it doesnt bother him but do u married men really care if ur wife puts on weight?would u look else where?i dont think my husband would.and for wifeys or would u even care or be bothered by the weight gain?im 27 yrs old and somtimes i feel like i dont even want to try to lose the weight cuz im getting older anyway.but i am currently dieting and hoping to lose at least 20.what do yall think
2007-01-07 07:25:07 · 5 answers · asked by Moniluv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if he really loves you he will accept you the way you are !! i have put on some too ! it really bothers me - one day i will loose it ! good luck on yours !!
2007-01-07 07:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, I AM A 42 YR OLD MAN MARRIED 18 YRS. NO THE WEIGHT IS NOT WHERE THE HEART IS. IF YOU THINK HE IS LOSING INTEREST TRY SPICING UP THINGS. BESIDES MY WIFE WORKED OUT EVERY DAY AFTER OUR SON, SURE SHE PUT ON SOME WEIGHT SO WHAT? DIDNT BOTHER ME A BIT. YOU ARE ONLY 27 THAT IS YOUNG GET IN SHAPE IF YOU THINK IT WILL HELP, BUT IN MY EYES THAT DOESNT MATTER AT ALL.SO GET THAT LITTLE HARD BODY WORKING, AND SHOW IT OFF SEE WHAT HAPPENS IF HE RESPONDS THEN YOU WILL KNOW YOUR ANWSER .HOPES THIS HELPS A LITTLE.
2007-01-07 15:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by todd L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you're trying to lose weight to please your husband, then you aren't doing it for the right reason.
Second, if your husband is constantly responding that it really doesn't matter to him, then take him at his word. Don't pester him to say something he may not actually feel just to placate you.
Third, as a man, I can say that the size of my wife wouldn't be a reason for me to look outside the relationship.
Be open and honest with your spouse, too many mistakes are made when we assume things or try and hide how we feel.
2007-01-07 15:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by mike w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it for urself, to be healthy and feel better ....for ur children.... they need a healthy active and positive mom.....
2007-01-07 15:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's worth having he will love you no matter what your size.
2007-01-07 15:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by BJC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋