I asked my girlfriend for a threesome, and she said she would do it, if I would have gay sex with a dude, while she watches. She says I have to let him f**K me. I have seen the guy in the showers at school and he is huge. I'm afraid it will hurt me inside, but I really want the threesome.
2007-01-07 07:22:18 · 23 answers · asked by Bill A 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you sink to this level. I believe she may be just seeing if you will do it, and then dump you and tell all your friends you are Gay.
Is that what you want?
Even if you go through with it, imagine how it would affect you, if you are straight. Getting some guys **** up your ***, has to hurt, and even if it doesn't you will remember it for life.
What if he ejaculates in you? Will you respect yourself, or will your girlfriend respect you?
What if you ended up liking it???
Stay clear of things like this until you are older, and can put them in better perspective.
2007-01-07 11:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
What's good for the goose, is good for the gander.
Basically, don't ask your girlfriend to do something you're not willing to do yourself.
I'm guessing maybe this is a woman on woman threesome?
Think about this...what if she ends up liking the woman chosen to share your bed in the threesome. What if you end up being ignored because the women are having too much fun. Most guys don't even think about this. Their view is they get to stick their **** in two women, instead of one, then the truth is...she could leave you for the other woman.
Now, if this is a threesome with another guy, well..what if you end up liking men better and forget about the girlfriend? There's always a possibility. Or maybe she'll like him better.
Anyways, always something to think about. It never ends with just the once. Usually something more becomes of it. Remember, use condoms and lots of lube, and take it very slow.
2007-01-07 07:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Voice 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar opportunity years ago and wished I had taken up that chance. Since that time, i regretted not going all the way in a MMF (bi male) threesome. I am bi, butt still amazingly virgin a full two decades later after passing up such a golden opportunity. Ever since that time, either one or the other of the couple was not right for/with me or me for/with them, so I am still virgin. My wife always said she was gonna surprise me and bring home a guy, but that never materialized, except for a few close calls... she always got cold feet. Since you now have a chance to explore your obvious latent bisexual desires, i say go for it, however PLAY SAFE. Make sure she, he and you are all on the same page... she will be majorly turned on bi all this... most women secretly admit that nothing is hotter than watching their lover with another guy, especially when being 'taken' for the first time from behind. Watch a few bi films and read up on this subject before going the distance and make sure this is what you BOTH (or all three) want. Have fun. If you are 18, you can wirte about this on your blog on bispace.com in a few months after I launch it... yes, I own that domain, which will soon be a bisexual or bi-friendly/tolerant community very similar to myspace. Good luck.
2007-01-07 16:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by azcuriousm4u 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
1. Are you going to suck him off too?
2. Why would she want this?
3. Would she loose respect for you, even though it was her idea?
4. Why would you want a threesome with a guy?
5. You're how old?
6. Why do you want a threesome with a guy?
7. Yes it will probably hurt.
2007-01-07 07:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I wouldn't recommend it........especially if it's something you don't want to do. Do you really want this threesome that bad? And how do you know that she won't back out and decide against the threesome after she sees you have gay sex? Lots of stuff to think about........just make sure it's what you want before you do it.
2007-01-07 07:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you're not willing to do it for her then why should she be willing to do it for you? You don't really sound like you are against being involved in gay sex. Are you only worried that it'll hurt? If you are okay with gay sex, then why not just do oral sex? Don't gag yourself, and you'll be fine!
(anyways, how do you know that this guy will want to be involved? Is he gay? Does he like you? Is she going to hook you two up, or will you have to ask him out yourself?)
2007-01-07 07:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by Yuka 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, you are only in high school I wouldn't make a decision to do something like that so young. She may find that attractive but later on when other girls find out, they may not find it that attractive and may affect you alot more later on. Since you are only in high school your gf probably wont be around as your gf forever. If you want to and are gay it is a different story. I wouldn't say have sex with a guy just because she wont's you to.
2007-01-07 07:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by ♥noey♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG...you're still in high school??? You and your girl should just go out for burgers and fries and skip this threesome ********...You have NO IDEA what you're doing!
2007-01-07 07:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
You should not be pressuring her into a threesome pig! Be happy with what you've got you selfish s.o.b.!
2007-01-07 07:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what u want .... u are askin her to do something..like have sex with another female ... if u are curious then do it...if u are not then call it off the 3some.... find other ways to excite yourself ..or spark your love life
2007-01-07 07:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by lezbianflava 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋