I mean i still like the guy that i am dating, i just think that this other guy is so hot! I dont know wut to do! PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2007-01-07 07:10:07 · 23 answers · asked by Lakelyn_045 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that is totally normal. I mean, you still like the guy youre dating. and the other hot guy is just an infatuation that means nothing.
2007-01-07 07:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by pookashell 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to acknowledge the fine guys out there! Being in a relationship means that you like the attention from the person that you have an amazing time with. Most guys will still find other girls attractive no matter if they are attached. It's okay to look but not to touch!!! Just noticing all the georgeous guys out there gives us girls a rush and something to talk about!!
2007-01-07 07:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by To Remain Anonymous 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to flip the situation around - how would YOU feel if your partner thought that another girl was hott?
Knowing how your partner feels is the best way to figure out what is right for you. Also, if this is just a passing thing that only lasts one minute and then it's gone, then I wouldn't worry about it. But if you are constantly thinking about some other guy when you're dating another guy, then it is time to re-assess the situation.
2007-01-07 07:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by - rissarori - 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay. Just because you're going out with someone doesn't mean that you're dead to the rest of the world. You're just dating and going out, not married to the other guy. If you want to have a different guy, break it off with the 1st guy and go for what you really want. Life's too short to be miserable being with someone who's not your type any longer. You're both young, he'll get over it, I promise. In fact, he may already have his eye on something else.
2007-01-07 07:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of guys are hot. I'm a normal female. However, I'm married to a hot man, who I am deeply in love with, so I just don't act on my attractions. However, it's normal to think guys are cute or hot. Unless you're dead, you just can't help it.
Did I tell you about the hot guy at the mall today . . . ?
2007-01-07 07:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine to think that. You can't turn off your appreciation of all guys just because you're dating one of them.
However, it IS wrong if you do anything about it. Also, you shouldn't let your boyfriend notice you looking at other guys, because it will hurt his feelings.
2007-01-07 07:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Iris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay and perfectly natural and healthy. just don't pursue him...admire him and his body from afar...
You think couples married for 30 years don't look at other people and go wow they are hot but know the one they are married to is forever?
2007-01-07 07:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu as long as you don't go tasting.
2007-01-07 07:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy u think is hot was to ask u out and u would tottaly go and dump your bf for him then it isnt ok.
2007-01-07 07:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mary S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ok to think another guy is cute as long as you dont do anything stupid or anything like that.
2007-01-07 07:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lissa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋