Im very controlling..and she doesnt know about the internet history crap..when she is done with the computer,I log on again and check her emails,myspace..etc..
2007-01-07 07:09:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, get off your high horse. If you have to stoop so low as to read her email, there's a thousand other men out there better for her than you!
2007-01-07 07:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least you recognize and admit that you are controlling, now you need to admit that you have even bigger problems. You definately have issues, low self esteem, inability to trust, ego problems, you are not happy with something about yourself and you need to get dsome help and fix it b/c until you do you will never be able to be happy with anyone else.
It is totally inappropriate to invade someone else's privacy and read their e-mail, mail, diary, journal, credit card statements, phone bill etc.
You fail to mention WHY you do this? do you suspect she is cheating on you? either way your relationship is destined to fail. There is notrust and without trust you simply cannot have unconditional love. You need to come clean, tell her what you did an offer up any explination you have. If you feel justified b/c you feel sheis cheating on you then it should not take you more than a couple of views to either confirm or negate your suspicions. tell her what you did, apologize, tell her that you are insecure and have trust issues and ask her to help you work through it. Atleast tell her the truth so she can change her passwords have the decency to tell her about the internet history and other things that normal unsuspecting trusting people generally have no use for b/c they havenothing to hide and they don'tneed to check up on anyone b/c they trust themsleves enough to not be in a relationship with someone who will betray them
2007-01-07 07:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by dreamwhip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my former bf did that to me and I felt kinda betrayed when i found out. Like, it wasn't a super huge deal, but I was disappointed he didn't feel he could trust me. I want a relationship based on trust, not suspicion. do you have any 'real' reason to be concerned? if so, talk to her about it. if not, realize that you will Not be able to control her every move and actions, which are most likely innocent anyway, and that you've gotta be with someone you can trust, and respect her enough in return by showing her that trust. it will go a long way..and save you a lot of worry~~
2007-01-07 07:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by pursuit_of_happyness 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 06:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate this... why do guys do this? and you guys call us crazy... huff, I need my privacy... why didn't you question her about what you felt? Why go behind her back and invade her right to discretion? She mmay dump you if you keep this attitude up thn again some women like to be controlled....
2007-01-07 07:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You already know it is wrong, and you have a guilty conscience about it, or you wouldn't have asked this question. If you can't trust her then you don't deserve her and it is time to end this relationship.
2007-01-07 07:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by KitterKat2310 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, no... It's called invasion of privacy. Everyone has a right to keep things private.
2007-01-07 07:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by KGB_Vampiric 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is very wrong to do that. Only read other people's mail if you're invited to do so.
Wait, you really need to be told this?
2007-01-07 07:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It just means that you dont trust her
2007-01-07 07:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by its_just_me_218 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So... you're like a psycho/stalker, right?
2007-01-07 07:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by white.devil 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋