how do u get a guy to like u and still be yourself?

Question

i really like this guy he's like one of my best friends and we tell each other everything. he knows i like him but he doesnt like anyone. so what should i do

he already knos how much i like him and he doesnt seem to care. he is like one of the only guys that doesnt laugh at me and i can be truly myself around him.

Answer 1

let him know really how much u like him..how much he means to u nd tell him the importance he holds in ua life..i`m sure he`ll love u for tht.

Good luck..

ps.its really important to show ua love......

Answer 2

IF A MAN WANTS YOU


If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god! He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them

Answer 3

Seems like he's so used to having you around, and you being the friend, so it's time to try something new, I'd say cut down hanging out with him, start being very busy, yet when you do see him be very friendly, and talk to him cheerfully, but don't sit with him long.
Hang out with other friends, make new ones if you have to.

We always start to understand what something means to us when it's either gone or rarely there. If he asks you out after that. Perfect. :) And also, you can still be yourself by showing the best of yourself to him. Let him make the first move, as he already knows you like him, so it's up to him whether he acts on that or not. At least you'll find out if he's planning to be more than friends.

Answer 4

Sounds like he already likes you in the way that matters most--he's your friend and your confidant. And, you achieved that relationship by being yourself, right? Believe me, that's a much rarer thing than a boyfriend, so my advice is to enjoy it and not try to turn it into something else. Of course, it may just be that you're putting some pressure on him to be something HE'S not ready to be, hmmm? I'll bet that, if you open yourself to seeing another guy as potentially more than a friend, you'll find out if there really is or is not the potential for more than friendship with this guy. Hope that helps.

Answer 5

Well me personaly, i wouldn't go out with him if your like best friends because if you break up it would be hard to probably be friends again, buy one way that you can be your self is to be really sweet and funny around him, and if you want just make fun of your self, like dancing crazy... because a sign of him laughing and smiling at you like crazy is a GReat sign, please try it! I have been through several relation ships and trust me that is the way to find the ONE GUY!!!!

Answer 6

If a guy likes you, he'll let you know. If he's not in to you move on. If you're friends, he already knows who you are and would know if you're being fake. Plus you shouldn't be fake for a guy anyway. If for no other reason (and there are many other reasons) than the real you will come out eventually.

Answer 7

Ok, I'm a little confused. You guys are best friends and your asking yahoo answers how can you still be yourself? Well, dear, this boy obviously takes you as yourself cause you guys are best friends. There is NOTHING you can do but be yourself. And if he doesn't like it, He's not worth your time.

Answer 8

if you can't be yourself all the time you don't need him.a person should like you for who you are ,not who your not.never try to impress others,you;ll only be digging a hole.i see people everyday acting like something they are not,it's a real turn off.be yourself and forget what others think.
find a good guy that will like (love) you for you and only you.
forget those jerks that want to change you .

Answer 9

First off, if your relationship ends and you are no longer able to remain friends are you capable of trading that off for some romance? You should be very straight forward and tell him how you feel.

Answer 10

just be yourself in the beginning. If he likes you when you are yourself, then there's nothing to worry about when you have a relationship. If he knows that you like him, and he's not into you, then find someone that is.

Answer 11

Allot of ppl proble do like you, but they are proble scared to express there emotions, for fear of rejection, so dont worry if you havnt got a response off no one because you never know who might like you secretly.