I used to think I love him so much, even though I really don't like that he has that much "history" with girls. We talked about this for many times. I don't think he loves me, well, but I think we like each other, at least a little bit. But somehow I still cannot control my lust to him. He's a playboy, I guess. I can never know what he's doing. Everytime he just call me when he wants. We meet each other, then he will disapper for sometime. I know I shouldn't keep thinking about him, but still, everytime he ask me out, I will just say yes. I don't know whether I should just let my feeling go like this or I should control myself, and how? I am not young anymore, 24, and I feel like I need a real boyfriend, but it is hard to find someone that you feel you really like. What should I do then? T.T~~
2007-01-07 06:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looking at the world from outside....
Go inside and look outwards! You're part of the rat race club. You like this guy, but he only shows little interest in you. You are willing to make yourself available for him. You keep wanting more and more of him and he is not responding to you as you really would like for him to. Please read the following about men and I hope it will help you and other women:
2007-01-07 06:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHHHHH are you kidding? You are SO young!!!!!
You are letting this guy use you. If you don't feel that bad about letting your lust take over then I say have fun and keep dating in the meantime for someone you can care about and be attracted to.
If every time you are his booty call, you feellike crap after then that is your sign that you are disrespecting yourselfand that is not emotionally healthy no matter how sexy this dude is.
I say....control yourself and stop letting this man have access to you that he does not deserve. You are not old,but old enough to start learning how to letpeople treat you.
Stop sacrificing your dignity tobe some guys backup plan.
2007-01-07 06:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is lust you feel, get yourself a toy.
Stay away from him. He is using you.
Get a life outside of men.
Plan time with friends, get a hobby, start an exercise plan.
Fill your life with things besides him.
While you are doing these things you will find yourself letting go of him. Try yahoo personals. I've found the love of my life on there.
2007-01-07 06:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the first guy, unless you want to be classified as a sex offender. (I mean seriously? What if the asker is in a place that has no privacy? How will that work then?) You might want to move on. If she says no, then you need to respect her wishes. If you don't want to be friends with her after that though, that's fine too. And also, try finding something "imperfect" about her and focus on that...just don't say it out loud or anything. If you can't find anything, well...you might want to stay away from her before you do something you regret.
2016-03-16 23:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly? I think this guy sounds like a total waste of your time. Find another guy that will actually like being with you, but one that you're just as attracted to.
2007-01-07 06:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Helper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from Mr bunny.Buy a toy, avoid his calls etc.etc. I would hang with my friends, find a hobby.Pick up a sport, yoga,bowling.Do anything to keep Mr Bunny out of you mind and get away from him!
2007-01-07 06:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you and that is it.
Find someone new who will treat you the way you should be treated.
Good Luck
2007-01-07 06:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get laid.....................
2007-01-07 06:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋