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Because you want to wait until you're married, to have sex again. P. S. I just started dating this guy. And I already told him I'm not a virgin.

2007-01-07 06:37:35 · 22 answers · asked by ♪Miss_Soprano♫ 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

22 answers

what you should have told him is though you are not a virgin you have no intentions of having sex again till you are married. you could still tell him, but in so doing you must not make him feel like it's a hint you sending to him. no one likes to be pressured into marriage for sex

2007-01-07 06:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by gustine_girl98 3 · 1 0

Well he sounds like he's w/u just 4 it. If ya just started goin out then u need 2 break up w/him b/c he's just w/u 4 da sex mami. So the way u basically tell him is look i dont want 2 have sex til i'm married. I already made the mistake by just doing it now i want 2 mend it back 2gether by just doing it when i get married n if u cant deal w/that then we cant go out n e more.

~*Tuveesha*~

2007-01-07 14:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Tell him straight up from the begining, say look i'm not ready for sex right now and that you would like to wait. If he's not okay with that then he isn't worth your time. I hope everything works out for you

2007-01-07 14:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Just tell him you did some soul searching and you don't want to end up like those girls who have been with like 50 guys before they got married. You think sex should be for when two people are truely in love and are ready to fully commit. in your own words ofcourse. and tell him that you just aren't gonna do it.

2007-01-07 14:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by killersaint 2 · 1 0

just because he know that you are not a virgin, it does not mean that you are automatically going to sleep with him. just explain to him that you have had sex in the past and you have decided not to have sex until you are married now.

2007-01-07 14:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0 0

Be clear with him about it so he knows you're being honest. You made up your mind not to have sex with ANYONE until you're married. That's the way it is.

2007-01-07 14:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1 0

You told him you're not a virgin, yet you're not going to have sex with him?

Oof. Best to break it to him right away. The longer you wait to tell him, the more damage this is going to cause. He has a right to know.

2007-01-07 14:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Steve 4 · 1 2

Don't feel pressure about it. If he keeps asking that means he wants you for only sex because he isn't listening to tyour wishes and concerns.Don't lose it for a fool.

2007-01-07 14:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by LIZA 4 · 1 0

If a girl who is not a virgin told me that she was waiting for marriage, I'd tell that slut to back off.

2007-01-07 14:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

waiting until your married to have sex is a personal choice...congrats to you for making this decision!

If he loves you he'll wait, old story but absolutely true...if he tries to pressure you and doesn't have enough respect for you to respect your own personal boundaries, then he needs to go...trust me, you WILL find that mr.right who loves and respects himself enough to be confident enough in himself that he won't need sex to solidify a relationship or just gain personal pleasure...

stay strong...you've made this choice for excellent reasons I presume, don't let just anyone deter you...

2007-01-07 14:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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