i want to b sociable enough to attract guys but i dn't know where to start,pliz help on this. another problem is,am not that shy but when a guy comes close to me as though kissing me, i just can't allow him, talking about 'bed' is worst, pliz tell me what should i do?
2007-01-07 06:34:35 · 9 answers · asked by kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When your ready it will happen, don't be in such a rush............
2007-01-07 06:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to learn some good grammar.
Second, it's obvious you're not entirely ready. Perhaps wait some time. Often just by being "hard to get" but you're really just waiting (for whatever reason) guys are often more attracted.
Third, after you've waited a little, you'll find a guy who you're comfortable with. Just because you find a guy who's attracted to you doesn't mean that hes the right one, even for just a first kiss/boyfriend.
Fourth, if you can't even kiss, then what are you worrying about sex for? I'm assuming thats what you mean by "bed".
2007-01-07 14:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One day it will happen . Don't try to rush it. And I'm sure that a lot of guys are attracted to you , just be you. When the time comes you will know , let no one else make that choice for you.
2007-01-07 14:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by phoebe m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be comfortable. When it's right you will feel that it is safe. You have to always know that you are in control. And let them know that to.,
2007-01-07 14:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by With My Forever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not ready for a sexual relationship. Don't rush it, take your time.
2007-01-07 14:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you grow up a bit more
2007-01-07 14:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is natural. If you have lack of libido, you may consult with a physician.
2007-01-07 14:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by akandaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when somthing is really special u will know it and let it happen. you don't need to force anything that doesn't feel right to you.
2007-01-07 14:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Toto! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anthing unless you are comfortable.
2007-01-07 14:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋