I recentely got out of a really bad experience with a guy, which I still have gotten over the whole situacion, but then I friend of mind wanted to do me a favor by introducing me to this guy she felt I could hit it off. Now I have been trying to really fall for him, and he is a really nice guy. He has a company with his dad, he wants to get me to move in with him, but I can't even get myself to like the guy. For me it's way too fast how he's doing everything and I feel as if he's suffocating me. He calls me everyday nonstop to check on me, to see what is it that I'm doing, bla, bla, bla. It's scarying the hell out of me too much attention on me. Now, don't get me wrong, I like the attention, but not when it gets to the point of being overboard. I'm thinking right now of a way to let him now to back off because I can only take so much, but I don't know how! I mean,this is a guy I meet not even 2 weeks ago, and from day 1 he was already asking me to move in with him, it's too much
2007-01-07 06:26:04 · 5 answers · asked by denisse1515 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When someone is being that pushy right off the bat, the only thing you can do is be very blunt. I can't imagine that you care about this person too much to potentially make him not like you anymore. He sounds like he's got some sort of issue.
Trust me. Just tell him like it is. "Hey, you really need to chill out, because I met you like 2 weeks ago, and I can't just drop everything I'm doing and move in with a guy I just met." I mean c'mon. What if you find out that this guy is a total nutcase AFTER you move in with him. lol. If you have any other questions my email is thewilllee@gmail.com
2007-01-07 06:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Helper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's no big deal. It sounds like he's into you but if you have to TRY to like him, he's not for you. You shouldn't have to make yourself like someone, it's a natural thing. Your trying gave him the wrong impression and that's why he wants you to move in. Not a good idea and it could be bad for long term relationship.
Break it off while you have the chance.
2007-01-07 06:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know if you feel this deep when u typed all that detail, it's time for your mind and heart to take a break and relax. calmly tell that guy that u need some time off and that you do appreciate that he cares about you.
2007-01-07 06:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness, definitely tell him to lay off. If you don't wanna hurt his feelings, that's understandable, but you've gotta confront him in some way. Even if he's flawless, it absolutely okay to not be attracted to him.
2007-01-07 06:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anodyne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a guy like this. it didn't last long. you shouldn't have to 'make' yourself like someone. he needs to back off!
2007-01-07 06:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by how empty of me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋