What are the rules nowadays?
2007-01-07 06:19:13 · 7 answers · asked by j k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No don't jump into bed with each person you go out with. There are so many diseases that are floating around these days. Make sure that you request for the other person to get a Aids Test before you have unprotected sex. If the person is insulted that you want the testing, then move on to the next person. You can go to the free clinic and get free anonymous testing.
Make sure that the person is free to date; not married or living with a partner.
Go very slowly these days, request to meet their family or friends. If they are not waiting to introduce you to someone that know them, beware they have something to hide.
Request their home telephone number to contact them. If they tell you that they are never home only call them on their cell phone--red flag.
I have meet so many guys that were trying to run a game on ladies that I could write a book on Beware Before You Say Yes!
2007-01-07 06:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by D S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That a good question.I'm a guy 45 and I am seeing the same things you are.It seems that most of the dates I go on are open for many things and many of these ladies make the suggestion themselves.I'm not locked in to just certain types of woman so it's not where I meet them or their social background but their choice to be seductive.I'm not sure if there are any rules any more.It has gotten to where I don't ask allot of them out again because of the way they present themselves on the first couple of dates.I would like to date nice respectable woman not some sex crazed hooch.
2007-01-07 06:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go by the "rules" outlined to you by someone else, you're not being yourself and it's setting the stage for a not only dishonest relationship but a very uncomfortable one for you.
Be yourself and come up with some guidelines BEFORE you start dating. Know what you are comfortable with and set your own rules. If the guy wants to do something before you're comfortable and he leaves because of it, it wasn't a good match for you anyway.
Good luck!
2007-01-07 06:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Shrieking Panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in!!! I am 39 yrs old and just got back into the dating scene after 19 yrs of marriage...so I hear you!! Things are so different these days!!! Trust me..don't do ANYTHING you do NOT want to do...the person will respect you all the more for it in the long run. Good Luck!!!
2007-01-07 06:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The new world is sex driven. Girls want sex, guys want sex. What happened to the "good ol' days" that we all once heard of...
2007-01-07 06:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by The World Ends with You 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give head, i love doing that even though i'm 22
2007-01-07 06:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"To thine own self be true"
2007-01-07 06:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by largerladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋