my AG teacher knows my dad and my grandfather....they are 2 of the best shots(have the best aim)in my county my teacher wants me to join the shooting team that we have and wants my dad and grandfather to help the other kids. I am very good a shooting targets and im only 14 I have tried out for the team a previous year with a broken arm and I made it,i could still aim and shoot, but this year im scared to try out because we have all guys and no girls on the team and the whole time they flirt with me and mess up my concentration I’ve asked them to stop but they wont they messed with the gun I was shooting before last year and messed up the scopes aim, I missed the target and everyone was mad at me my shot was the one that would have won the match and my teacher had chosen to let the competition turn out depend on me, and I lost it it was state to, I upset my teacher and everyone in my school I don’t know what to do I don’t think I could stand one more year of their torment and they know it to, the do it on purpose to upset me, I have 1 friend that stand up for me on the team but now hes gone and cant help I want to so this but im afraid of what might happen,what should I do
2007-01-07 06:11:26 · 10 answers · asked by female football player 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im the only girl in 8th grade that isnt scared of guns(id have NO idea y the others r)
2007-01-07 06:11:39 · update #1
Guys rip on each other all the time, especially in sports. The fact that they're teasing you just indicates that they're treating you as one of the guys. If you can't handle this, it would probably be best if you dropped out of it now. It will only cause more problems down the line if you can't accept it.
2007-01-07 06:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-30 06:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by dewulf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's happening to you is called harassment, and it's NOT ok. In fact, it's illegal.
Talk to your teacher and tell him or her exactly what's going on. If your coach doesn't listen, go to your principal or tell another teacher. Your school has the responsibility of protecting you from harassment.
Good for you for sticking with this!!!!!
By the way... I think you've hit a nerve with your question. Somebody is going around and giving low ratings to everybody who supports you. I think that shows that there are people out there who don't think girls should play "boy" sports. And that proves why you need to keep doing it!! Girls can do ANYTHING that boys can do.
2007-01-07 06:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All these people that depend on you, teacher etc. need to stand up for you. Take care of yourself, if the team doesn't appreciate you screw them and anyone else that isn't willing help put a stop to this. Your a good shot, maybe someone needs a shot in the butt with a bb gun.
2007-01-07 06:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont let anyone stop you from doing what u enjoy. if they mess with you get your dad on them. he will protect you. also from one shooting competior to another. you take pratice shots to do sight adjustments correct. keep track of ur sight markings in a shootist book. like if ur three turns up from the bottom of the scope you can verify it before you shoot. that way u will never have that happen again. one of my best friends and firest competiors before i joined the army was a girl. she and i are still good friends and sometimes i still come out to compete. i havent done much of it since i got out of the service. i miss it. so dont stop doing what you enjoy.
2007-01-07 06:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell the coach about the harassment. Do not flirt back. Be strong and focus on the future. The best revenge is being the best you can. Do it. You go girl!!!!!
2007-01-07 06:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by momonster 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is why they have erasers on pencils peole make mistakes, please dont get upset over one mistake, they may have been upset but i believe it is you that is most disapointed in you. dont be its a great lesson you have learned its all part of life, you sound like a very nice person stop putting yourself down, sit down with your dad he sounds like a good friend and thank God you have them to go to.
good luck
2007-01-07 06:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by t-bone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. Let them talk whatever they want. Ignore the flirt. If you feel uncomfortable then is called sexual harassment and the coach and your family should be aware that is making you uncomfortable.
2007-01-07 06:15:17 · answer #8 · answered by LIZA 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
listen u play with boys u get treated like boys, guys make fun of each other they don't get all emotional why don't u pick up a lesbo sport u would be good at like soccer
2007-01-07 06:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by wolfchat_2005 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sue. I mean it.
2007-01-07 06:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋