Hes my really good friends cousin but i have never met him. We began talking about a week ago and he was acting a little perverted towards me. I called him out on it and he said "im not trying to have sex with you or anything if thats what u are thinking." He really wants me to come over to his apartment to chill but i dont want to. I kept telling him lets go to the mall or something since ive never met u and hes like noo just come here im a good guy I promise...blah blah blah. What do u guys think I should do? I dont think his intentions are good. what do u guys think?
2007-01-07 05:48:58 · 5 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your initial gut instinct. If it feels wrong- it usually is wrong. Do not go anywhere alone with this guy. At his age he really has nothing in common with you- as you cant do everything that he can. His intentions are nothing close to friendly in my opinion. Best bet would be to stop the communication with him- especially since he has already has shown you his is a bit perverted.
if he keeps on insisting that you meet up alone- bring a few of your friends with. Whatever ill plans will nipped in the bud when he realizes he cant get you alone
2007-01-07 05:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately, it's up to you to decide. But I think it's a little too obvious. You've never met him before, he's at least 3 or 4 years older than you, and he wants you to come over to his apartment. People can say ANYTHING about themselves if it will attract someone they like. The difference is, it's much easier to be convincing when you've never met or if you haven't known each other for a long amount of time. Stay away from him, and if he continues to behave like this, eliminate him entirely. Don't talk to him or email him or anything like that. It's too dangerous to become involved with someone you've never seen or met.
2007-01-07 05:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh god, no matter what, do not go to his apartment. If you do, definitely not alone. If he won't meet you at the mall or anywhere else besides his apartment, he's just looking to get in your pants. Especially since you don't feel comfortable. You can always tell if they're pervs...
2007-01-07 05:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur right not to trust him. his intentions are prolly not that good. goin to a mall is a good idea. because he cant do anything in public.....id talk to ur friend about it first though.
2007-01-07 05:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by cubno1fan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋