I broke up with my BF last Saturday and now he doesnt talk to me, he says he will call but, he doesnt and he says he will take me back one day and then the next day he says "I don't know" and gets off the phone?! The reason I broke up was becuz he said "I don't think this is going to work" and alot of crap about me was being said over myspace! By his friends and cousins whom I don't even know. And every time I call all he can say is "I don't know" and I called him the other day and asked if I could go down to his house and we could talk but, he said he will not be there?! It's drving me crazy WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-01-07 05:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by pebblespunk2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did you break up with him or what?? You broke up with him over a week ago. why are you still talking to him daily?
if he's responsible for ( or knows who's responsible for ) the " bad stuff on Myspace" and he 'doesn't think this is going to work...' etc -- MOVE ON.
HE sounds totally immature, (YOU don't sound too with-it either).
BREAK-UP! give it some time, look around--he's not the only guy out there.
Make a decision, and stick with it. If he's worth it(you), he'll correct the my space crap and come crawling back.
A BF does not treat his GF like this.... And a GF shouldn't put up with it!
2007-01-07 05:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by mrgerry2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you questioning what to do when you broke up with him? If he feels it isn't going to work, then the statement is probably valid. But that was the time to ask as to why. Perhaps he was testing if you feel that way, and by breaking up it reassured him that you do. MySpace should be taken for what it is, a public bulletin board where anyone can post anything about anybody. If someone believes in the hearsay, then they probably read the National Enquirer and get off on smut. These people usually aren't that well educated socially.
2007-01-07 13:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by bfwh218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only reason you broke up with your boyfriend was because other people were "talking smack" about your relationship with him...you made a BIG mistake. Your relationship is strictly HIS and YOUR business alone; no one else's. Anyone can say anything about your relationship, but ultimately, YOU and HIM decide if you're happy with each other.
If you broke up with your boyfriend because you're truly upset about him or unsure of his intentions, then the best solution is to stick with it. Don't worry about calling him or talking to him; concentrate on recovering and moving on.
In either case, you have to understand that your friends and relatives don't have control over your romantic interests; YOU control that. If that's your problem, fix it. Tell your ex-boyfriend that it was because of what people were saying, and that you promise not to do that again. You and your ex are smart enough to make your own decisions, and don't forget that.
Good luck.
2007-01-07 13:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st I would move on you don't need all the heartache take it from one who knows.
2nd Myspace has caused me nothing but trouble in my current relationship and chances are it will not get better I have been dealing with my current issues for over a year But just moved over 14 hrs away with the man I love away from all support of family and friends to only only have the problem follow us.
3rd If this guy cared he would not make you beg he would understand everyone makes a mistake
2007-01-07 13:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by watkinslael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, honey. Maybe he's playing games with you. Some people like the thrill of the chase. Maybe if you back off completely, he will call. You don't want to humiliate yourself. I promise that six months from now you won't even care about this guy.
2007-01-07 13:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by jonahsmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on!!!
I don't think your ex could be more obvious with his intentions -- he does not want to be with you!!!
You need to see that and get on with your life. Try being single for a while, learn to not need a bf, you will find what you really like and want. THe more comfortable you are with yourself the better your relationships will be.
2007-01-07 13:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by JoeH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweep up the pieces of your undoubtably broken heart and move on. It sounds to me like he wants to play games. Playing games is a waste of time and energy, and you deserve better. Focus your energy on relationships that bring you joy and happiness not on this loser.
2007-01-07 13:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and find someone more honest and more mature. It doesn't sound like he's worth all the effort you are giving him.
2007-01-07 13:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by shallybles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhm say **** him and ignore him...he'll come crawling back because thats what hes trying to make you do right now...or he just doesnt like you no more and doesnt know how to say it
2007-01-07 13:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by divided skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him he seems like a 2 faced jerk......trust me ur better off with out him
2007-01-07 13:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋