its very unlucky for me that the girl who ditched me for my classmate, has come in my postgrad class. They both hangout together always(obvious), but what angers me is they both are really mean and selfish towards other people. Whatever happens they first secure themselves and ignore everybody including me!!! They are self cenetered for themselves in everything!! and basically very rude to anyone who tries to talk to them or suggest something. She even told me once that she hates me!! straight face!! This angers me because i cant bear that the people who hurt me try to now act smart and without conscience. I cant believe i was once with her(its good it did not work out). But everytime i see them together i get totally irritated and feel this hate inside me!!! How do i control my anger and hate????
2007-01-07 05:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are probably like that because they are insecure people, they may look like they think they are all that, but inside they probably dislike themselves very much, so I wouldnt let them get a rise out of you, instead just think of this. And remember what goes around comes around, they never know when they might need you or the people they arent nice to, so they should be careful.
2007-01-07 05:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. I had to get to the point where I couldn't react in any way, positively or negatively. When you see them, look away immediately. Get to the point where you do everything you can to avoid them. There are going to be times when you can't. Just put other thoughts into your head as soon as possible and move away from them. It's tough and it will take a while, but you will succeed. It also helps if you start another relationship with a girl. Good luck.
2007-01-07 05:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Man I know the feeling. It's a brutal and terrible feeling in your gut. Just keep in mind that this anger is totally normal. We all experience it. As for controlling the anger...there's not much you can do. Just dont let them see you get upset. Act like it doesnt even phase you and hopefully time will help heal this dillemma.
2007-01-07 05:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Darktania 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww. People can be such butt holes.
Whatever you do, don't return their negativity. This will only show them that they're succeeding in making you feel bad. Don't think that you have to prove yourself by having a come-back, I'm sure everyone else thinks they're snots. Try your best to ignore them, maybe find a bud to chat with to distract you.
2007-01-07 05:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home and beat the cr*p out of a wall. you may end up with broken bones but the anger will get less.
2007-01-07 06:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember your better then them! People who make others feel bad only have inferiority complex anyway - their not worth the time of day......... Counting to 10 helps - or imagining them in a real stupid position.......!
2007-01-07 05:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by GEMA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WALK AWAY trust me i got kicked outta school for 10 days for kicking the girls *** that stole my bf.
2007-01-07 05:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by obxbeachhottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them and find a really hot girlfriend to show her :) :) :)
2007-01-07 05:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋