usually guys tell girls they love them.....I dont wanna be the guy!
2007-01-07 04:39:15 · 16 answers · asked by yoyo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love yourself
walk proud
and be very womanly
if you are the woman
if will make him feel like the man
and that polar opposite energy is what creates attraction
you are VERY wise when you say you don't "want to be the guy"
coz if you play the guy part - it forces a guy into the woman part and he won't want that or you.
just be yourself let the guy chase you
you can even ask at some point
"hey stud you interested in me"? and if he says "no"
you smile and say "awesome, thanks"
*next*
2007-01-07 04:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by lowroad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whered you get the idea that guys tell girls they love them usually?
And why would u feel like a loser???
2007-01-07 12:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Peter X. Long 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why feel like a loser? There's nothing wrong with telling a guy that you love him.
You could always show him that you love him or say something like "I adore you"...not quite sure why you wouldn't just say "I love you" if you really do.
2007-01-07 13:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with your first statement.... guys aren't usually the first to say "I love you". As a matter of fact, in my experiences I have had one b/f that said it to me first...and another that i said it to first. But, the guy I said it too... DID not respond with the "i love you" right back... eww but we married anyway...lol You shouldn't feel like a loser..if you're confident that what you are feeling is LOVE..and you're like me and like to be honest about your feelings..tell him when you feel the moment is right. Best Wishes.
2007-01-07 12:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem that many girls have. It depends har far into the relationship the two of you have gone. Are you already friends or is he a crush? If he's already your friends, you could write him a text message and at the end just say casually "luv ya lots!" and that will leave him thinking. If he's not somebody close, I don't recommend it.
2007-01-07 12:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOw..I had to do this just last month. Here is what I did....I sat him down and said "I have something to say and I just need to say it. I don't expect you to answer or do anything with the information. I just need to say it. I have fallen in love with you. I realize you may or maynot feel the same way...either way its ok and I can accept it. The ball is in your court..its up to you if you hit it back to me" Then I left it alone and changed the subject. Good Luck!!!
2007-01-07 12:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly OK for a girl to say, "I love you" to a guy. I for one would be overjoyed with the news. NEVER be ashamed to say you love someone. Love is the greatest thing a human being can offer another.
2007-01-07 12:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yoyo, ask him first how he feels about you, and judge the response you will give from that. And don't worry, you won't look like a loser ok.
2007-01-07 12:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to start a conversation about who likes who in private, after a few laughs, if he asks u who u lik, slip in u lik him or had/have a crush on him along wit ur response. if he responds in the way u want him to then u may have found ur man. i understand why ur asking this. its just so freakin hard to just walk up to someone and say "i lik u" n it will be so easy for them to respond nowadays. if u need any other help, email me, in my old school, i saved lik 3 relationships
2007-01-07 12:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by D.Money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he says it first you should be a loser for saying it second. if you want to tell him first just say " i know this might be sudden but i think i love you. you are always on my mind and i cant stop thinking about you."
it worked for me
-Snow-
2007-01-07 12:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by Beaner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋