okay... it's a hard question to ask...
Please, if you don't understand... ask for clarification...
Is there any difference between men and women in getting horny... no I mean in getting aroused?
I always thought that women are supposed to be shy..., but after awhile... I begin to doubt that statement...
I don't really see any difference once you get it going...
Wanting to kiss...
Wanting to touch and be touched...
Wanting to snuggle...
Wanting to have sex... *sorry*
It's not for "guys" only, but also for "girls"
What do you think? Correct me if I'm wrong...
I only want honest answers... patronizing and judging are not appreciated...
2007-01-07 04:19:42 · 6 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys want sex more, girls like to cuddle more...
2007-01-07 04:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there are some differences I guess. Women do want sex just like men do. They think about it everyday just like men do. The differences are more psychological than anything. The things that invoke these emotions are different. Women are more concerned with feeling emotionally where as men seem more into the physical aspect of things. Most women have to be comfortable with a man before they let their true colors show.
2007-01-07 12:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by tigerlily23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. There are definite differences.
Men are MAINLY (not solely, but mainly) attracted visually. We SEE a great looking body and BAM, arousal. That's why we're into porn and posters and models but women aren't so much.
Women are MAINLY attracted tactilely, meaning by touch. This is why women love the feel of fabrics, teddy bears and foreplay.
Secondly, also VERY key, men feel attraction/arousal INSTANTLY. We just look at our girlfriend in lingerie and we're READY to go. Male porn is almost always variations on wham-bam-thank you ma'am. Quick and to the point.
Women BUILD arousal/attraction. It takes time. Thus, foreplay is key, role playing is key, mood is key, etc. Women are not nearly as into the quickies as men are. Also, this is why women want to "get to know" a guy before they become intimate. That sexual desire takes time to really seep in.
Hope that helps. And don't apologize for asking about sex. We're adults here.
2007-01-07 12:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think people would like to think so but really its just about the same.. come on... how many girls on here would seriously turn down Brad Pitt, or Mr Depp...
Actually in all seriousness the following on Icons like The Beatles Elvis even Jackson (before everyone realized ....lol freakshow)
Seriously.. Think about rock stars.. that whole being a rock star and havin women throw themselves at you.. surely becuase they are sexual creatures who would in all honesty do anything for such Men... if the oppurtunity were there.
So actually.. im not sure. Do you actually see men throwing themselves at actresses? i mean.. is it womens dreams to grow up be an actress so that millions of men will throw themselves on them? no...
but men would love it... and its the case...
Every girl ive dated or talked had some fantasy thoughts of some actor baseball player or musical artist... at some point in their life..
I think the actual act of being aroused.. is different for each person.. but surely in the case of thinking out things... were somewhat the same...
Some guys love snuggles.. and some kisses.. lol to each their own.
But to say one is less sexual than the other..
How many pornstars are men? and women?
im not sure.. but the quantity of women is probably higher.. so in actual sheer numbers, they are more openly sexual. possibly
2007-01-08 21:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i suppose it's different for different men and different women, but usually partners tend to get turned on in the same way (usually)
2007-01-07 12:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by rach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a very genral question, it depends on how passionate the woman or man is
2007-01-07 12:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by ACV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋