I was wondering how much money was appropriate to give the clergyman for officiating a very small informal wedding held at the bride's home, any suggestions will be appreciated.
2007-01-07 04:13:46 · 17 answers · asked by lakerfan81734 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I would begin at fifty dollars. From there factor in how far he had to drive, how long he was away from his home, and what time of day it was (very inconvenient time?).
Considering all of that, if the distance wasn't too far, I'd do about a hundred or so. Also, please invite his wife to attend - it's just nice. Be sure to treat him as an honored guest.
2007-01-07 04:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did not hire this officiant outright?
Are you a member of his/her congregation?
Today there are wonderful officiants that go above & beyond; customizing the wedding sermon to the couple they're marrying. If this is the case, an officiant usually has about 8-10 hours invested. We don't just get up & "read words".
If your clergy was hired, then you pay his fee and if you want, give him a gratuity.
If he is asking for a "donation" or has left the price up to you, you are paying an 'honorarium'.
Check out the officiants in your area to see what the going rate is for this particular sized/type wedding. To find an officiant type in your city, state & wedding officiant (no 's'). You should be able to find a few. You can't get married without this person. He isn't "just a vendor". Treat him with the respect he deserves.
2007-01-07 05:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Between $200 and $300. A little more if the clergyman will be attending the rehersal. Also, invite the clergyman to stay for the reception.
2007-01-07 05:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by nnaming2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a good idea to ask someone working in the same church/office, but not your clergyman, for advice. I asked the rectory when I got married and they told me that $50 (CDN) was customary. (I ended up donating $300 because I felt a deep connection to the church and was grateful for his willingness to do the ceremony)
2007-01-07 05:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with the church office, they might have a suggested amount for the donation. Otherwise, $100.
2007-01-07 05:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave mine $50 in 1999. Don't know what the going rate is today. Maybe still 50, or maybe 100?
2007-01-07 04:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think $100 would be appropriate.
2007-01-07 04:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by d3midway semi-retired 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on his/her performance. I was prepared to give ours $200.00, but I had told him before hand that I wanted the part about love, Honor and obey in the vows, as it seems it has been omitted. Then he left it out. So he got $30.00.
2007-01-07 04:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by oldmanwitastick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably give about $100
2007-01-07 04:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by pamomof4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the going rate is about 100 bucks per hour
2007-01-07 04:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by babushcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋