On his myspace, girls are constantly saying how hott he is and how they want to see a movie with him and stuff. He tells me that he doesn't care about any of them and that he only loves me and would never ever hurt me. But I just feel so insecure. I don't find myself very pretty and I'm kind of laid back. All these other girls are drop dead gorgeous super skinny, perfect face girls. I feel so insecure with that. They're just throwing themselves at him, I mean, how can he not give into that :/
Honest answers please, Thank you. I just want some advice :/
2007-01-07 04:10:47 · 28 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he's not giving in to it that's a good thing...he doesn't want them...maybe he likes you for your personality...enjoy it but don't let it get to your head.he sounds like a good guy to me
2007-01-07 04:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lone Hunter 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well i think if you trust him and really believe that he loves you then he does. And when you feel insecure just think that out of all those drop dead gorgeous super skinny perfect face girls he chose YOU! And that says a lot. And I don't think he would like the kind of girls that throw themselves at him like you say they are. And what I do when I feel insecure is go out with my girlfriends and pick out the cutest outfit that makes ME feel confident with myself and then you could go with your boyfriend and show him off (and you) to all those girls that WILL BE SUPER JEALOUS OF WHAT YOU HAVE!
Hope this helped you! ;)
2007-01-07 04:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by ♥AloHa* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you got a hot boyfriend and he's all yours. I mean you think he's hott so other girls probably do too. At least people aren't walking around saying she's got her an ugly man. But if the myspace does bother you he should change his settings to where he has to approve comments and not approve the comments like this
2007-01-07 04:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by puckbunny03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy. and i know exactly what you're talking about. My gf just asked me if I would put a big picture of her on my myspace with a title saying that I was taken so that it would "ward them off"
But really, have you talked to him about it? Maybe he feels insecure too? If he does fall for those other girls, then he wouldn't be a very good bf in the first place. would he?
2007-01-07 04:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by dude guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are letting your insecurities rule your mind. Never compare yourself to other girls. Obviously your boyfriend could have is pick of a lot of girls. He chose you because he likes you.
I would just enjoy the fact that I had a hot boyfriend that everyone wants but can't have because he is take by you.
If you get to insecure about this he will begin to feel that you don't trust him... just let it go unless you have a real reason to worry (e.g. he starts going to movies with them).
2007-01-07 04:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proud that all the girls want him but he chose you. A little insecurity is nice to a guy that you think is is so worth having that you would fight to keep him but if you are too insecure he might ditch you for being needy and as you say he can have his pick if the girls. Enjoy being with him and as for the other girls, let them drool!
2007-01-07 04:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he really likes you. He wouldn't leave the girl he loves for a bunch of other brats that wish they had him. If you stay loyal to him, he will stay loyal to you. I wouldnt sweat it. Being super skinny and gorgeous doesn't mean anything. He has you and you have him. Be happy, and not insecure!
2007-01-07 04:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by toriii<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you a nice nerdy guy with lots of future earning potential. In 20 years that team captain will be a fat, balding burn out who sells used cars out on the interstate. He'll take down his year book once in a while, take a few sips of Coors, and cry over his broken past and lost youth while the kids yell in the other room.
Trust me on this - I've been to the ten year high school reunion.
2007-01-07 04:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, if he didnt want to be with you, he wouldnt. I dated a star football player in high school. He was so into me, i never even worried about other girls. If this guy only has eyes for you, trust him. If he starts acting sketchy, then call him out. But until then, enjoy your relationship and try to realize, most of those "perfect" girls are WAAAAAAy more f*cked up than us normal girls. :) Good luck, babe.
2007-01-07 04:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by kissamoose217 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, if my girlfriend was insecure, I'd wind up dropping her. That's her problem, not mine, I'm in a relationship to enjoy myself, not babysit.
So, my advice is simply, find a way to get over it. Or if you can't, ask yourself why you're in a relationship in the first place.
More than good looks or a sexy body or whatever, a guy wants to be with a woman, not a little girl who needs to be coddled.
2007-01-07 04:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This isn't about your boyfriend as much as it is about you and how you feel about yourself. Make a list of all the great things about yourself, so you can remember what it is that makes you special. Whatever you do, don't constantly harrass your boyfriend and beg him to tell you why he loves you all the time - that gets old very quickly.
2007-01-07 04:15:17 · answer #11 · answered by E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋