If not then why?
2007-01-07 03:21:01 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. Shadow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you can't help it. That's why it's called "falling" in love, and not "stepping carefully" in love, or "walking according to a preplanned route" in love. Why would it matter anyways?
2007-01-07 03:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by blondes tease, brunettes please 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Noone can help you but yourself for love requires confidence and perseverance as it may prove difficult to woo one into your fold. So just pluck some confidence and start by inviting whoever you are attracted to for a drink or lunch. Should they accept, then you should assure yourself that at least they like you. Don't rush to utter the "three words" as you need to get aquainted by disclosing your backgrounds first. After this first meeting, ask if its possible to do it again and if the answer is positive, then things may begin to go on naturally, but much relying on how confident you may be.
2007-01-07 11:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. There have been guys that I have been so unattracted to and for some odd reason I have made myself fall in love with them. Because I either thought they loved me or because I thought that I could have a future with them. But I never want to do that again. Its better if you let love happen instead of making it happen. This year I vow not to make love but to let love.
2007-01-07 11:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can pick out people i like or am interested in but you can really choose who you fall in or out of love with. But i like this girl now that i had no intention of falling in love with but i can't help it i just care for her now and want to be with her. I don't know why she's just nice and i like her.
2007-01-07 11:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jake77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not, the heart often rules. On the same hand, you cannot help falling out of love with someone either. It can be all consuming, may not be ideal circumstances either but that old devil called love.....it can be a tough one
2007-01-07 14:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you cannot help who you fall in love with but it is your choice if you do something about it.
2007-01-07 11:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i believe that we choose who we fall in love with you cant fall in love with someone you just met or know nothing of that person that is impossible- that is a confusion of something else but is definitely not love.When you say your in love with someone you must be in love with there bad habits as well and love them for who they are .
2007-01-07 11:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by nleitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant sadly, and for me, aside from the guy im seeing now, my family have never liked who ive been out with and in the end i broke up with them as it was too awkward.
Its all to do with smell believe it or not! if you like the way someone smells its the first thing that attracts you.
2007-01-07 12:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
You cant help who you fall in love with
I dont know why
You just cant lol
2007-01-07 11:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by -Ashlee- Eeeep! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you sure can't you love you you love because of your heart, not your head. there is no ryme or reason for it. i have tried to figure this out myself, and cannot come up with an answer other than the one i have given you
2007-01-07 11:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by Doz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋