i like this boy at school and he knows it. but he does not like me the way i like himand he says only time wil tell. we are really good friends and i flirt with him alot (smiling at him and hugging) btu my feelings for him get stronger and stronger every day that i see him i need to know how to keep our friendship strong and i need to know when i will know if he likes me the way i like him.
2007-01-07 03:16:04 · 16 answers · asked by hoopz0032 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also took my cell phone sat. and ran with it i had to chanse after him and grab and pratically hold his hand just to get the phone back! what could that mean
2007-01-07 05:17:57 · update #1
If he says now that he doesnt like you as more than a friend you should accept it as that. Don't expect that in time that you will become any more than friends, because if you continue tring to push a situation onto him he doesnt approve of you might lose his friendship. If your feelings are growing unbarable. Write them down, burn them, and try to slowly ease your feelings from crush to friendship. If not then you might end up with nothing but pain when a great friendship could be made. My grandmother always says "A friendship is never worth losing over a passing love".
2007-01-07 03:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes things just aren't meant to be. I'm sure you're a really cool person, and I know what you're feeling. You like someone so much and you just don't want to let go because you think it could work. But you need to let go, move on. If you don't now, you will later. There's only so much waiting us girls can do when a guy doesn't like us back ;p. Trust me, I had the biggest crush on this guy my freshman year in high school and I thought he was so cute and I really really really liked him. I thought about him all the time... but it didn't work. I had a friend of mine ask if he liked me and he said no. It hurt, but I held on to a hope, but eventually that faded away and I realized he just wasn't for me.
I'm super glad I did too because the next year I met my current boyfriend who means more to me than any silly crush ever did. We've been going out for a little over a year now and I've never been happier.
Best of luck to you <3. Life moves on so don't worry about the little bumps in the road, think about the bigger picture! And have fun!
2007-01-07 03:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for him and he has expressed to you that his feeling are not there. Don't push this issue. Just continue to have a friendship with him. Don't do things that will try to get the friendship to go in a direction he doesn't want to go. We can make others love us in a way we may want them to. Don't mess up this friendship over feeling you have but he clearly states he doesn't have at this time. you may want to stop flirting, and hugging on him. It's seems to be pulling you in closer and closer. Before it's gone to far just love him as your friend and see what happens in months to come. Be a friend. You will know when he likes you because he will show it before he tells you. He eyes will tell all.
2007-01-07 03:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has said time will tell, so why don't you just carry on doing what you are doing. Set yourself a time limit and if in that time he hasn't made any moves to suggest he wants more out of it then back off and leave him to it as he is obviously just enjoying the attention. On the other hand he may genuinely just want to not rush things.
2007-01-07 03:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like he said, only time will tell. just give it a chance and stop being so hard on it. if you wanna keep the friendship strong, just be a good friend but try not to smother him. he knows you like him, so you flirting alot and things like that will keep reminding him of it, and he's just not interested at the time.
2007-01-07 03:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by WHY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said that he doesn't like you in that way. Just don't push it. Continue to be a good friend to him and if in the end he falls for you then great!!, but if he doesn't, you're still so young and will meet many more guys in your lifetime... :-)
2007-01-07 03:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, make him chase you. Stop hanging on him and flirting with him, thats making it worse for you, and if you quit doing it, it could make him chase after you. Worst case scenerio is your feelings for him might begin to change and keep you more on a friend basis.
2007-01-07 03:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Pyth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u need to do is let him come to u and like were pretty clothes and go by him and flip your hair he will see the inside of u and u will start sitting with him and like drop your pencil and have him get it and soon enough he will ask u out
is that good enough
2007-01-07 03:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by Bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I can speak for many who use this board when I say that we are sick and tired about questions from kids in like. Part of growing up is figuring out these problems for yourself. Don't bother others with your petty concerns.
2007-01-07 03:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The ball is in his court, just carry on as normal or find another
2007-01-07 03:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋