I'm not trying to be arrogant here, but I feel like this may be a problem for me. I'm also not saying that all girls like are mean *******, but the guys I know that are successful have done some really stupid things.
2007-01-07 03:08:39 · 18 answers · asked by The Royal Followills 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me add some detail. Without sounding mysoginistic, do women like to be "bossed around" at least some of the time?
2007-01-07 03:12:37 · update #1
i think yes a guy can be too nice. sometimes they come across as desperate at first and that can be a real turn off. wait till you are in a relationship then be the super nice guy. dont be mean just kind of tone it down a little till u really get to know the girl.
2007-01-07 03:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I hate to say it but it's true. A guy can be too nice. A guy can also be not nice enough. A great guy is somwhere in between. Look at like this. When you were a child you liked playing old maid but it soon became too easy and simple, you looked for games that were a little harder and with more of a challenge. It's human nature.
2007-01-07 11:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by dana j 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly - Yes.
Sometimes I think there's like a little devil living within us. We like guys to get a bit naughty sometimes as it excites us. I had a friend who is a ballerina, grew up from a well to do family, good education background and we use to think that she will end up marrying someone like bill gates BUT his husband is a tattoo artist who owns tattoo chain store - amazing right. They look so bizarre together BUT I have never seen a more loving couple then them. I guess maybe that is why they say opposite attracts.
But dont get me wrong, I am not asking you to go out and get yourself a criminal record, sometimes its just a short thrill and there are MANY type of girls, I am sure you will meet "your type of girl" who will accepts you for what your are.
Good luck.
2007-01-07 11:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy can put on a nice -guy front if they are trying to get somewhere with a woman, but honestly, if youre naturally a nice, sweet guy you just have to meet a nice ,sweet girl that values your wonderful trait. I wouldn't suggest that you start acting like an ****** for any bi*** that wants a jerk for a guy. You are truly a womans dream.
2007-01-07 11:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by dcbossygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I suppose that could be, if you let people walk all over you. But nice guys are better than jerks anyday. :)
edit: Some women do like a man who takes control, yes. I'm more of a submissive type person most of the time and my bf is more dominant type and that works out well for us. But there's a fine line you have to walk so you don't cross over to just being "bossy" or a jerk. :D
2007-01-07 11:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by tuxgal3 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some guys can be toooooo nice, and most girls do fall for the "bad guy image". Usually doesn't last though so don't change a thing about yourself & when they get tired of the jerk you can be there to pick them up....
2007-01-07 11:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. We like guys who treat us like equals above all else. As for the "bossed around" thing, maybe in bed, but anywhere else would indeed smack of misogyny.
2007-01-07 12:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't become a jerk just for the sake of getting a girl. The right girl who appreciates a nice guy like you will come along when it is meant to be.
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2007-01-07 11:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
YES! I had a guy one time that I kind of liked, he had money, was an engineer, but then he would call ALL the time and leave presents on my door step. It was just too annoying, like too clingy. I just didn't like that feeling. Sorry!!
2007-01-07 11:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by oracle1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come on now, you should know that answer yourself. A guy can only be as nice as he lets himself be. You know what your limits are. Just be yourself.
2007-01-07 11:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by VK1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋