im inlove with my bestfriend and we are both girls?

Question

im inluv with my bestfriend that is in a grade lower then me and i think and care about her all the time and i dunno if i should tell her i wanna so bad but i dnt wana ruin our friendship she stays over here alot and we lay next to eachother in my bed and she rapps her arms around my waist and puts her head real close to my face and lays on my shoulder one night we were holding hands when i was laying the other way and she cuddled me from behind and held my hand like we were dating i wanna tell her but i cant we tell eachother we love eachother all the time and we speak alot over the fone on the computer and face to face i really really wanna be with her but i dont wanna scare her outt of our friendship and im going crazy keeping this a secret from her i dream about her nearly every night and when she touches my and lays real close i feel really weird deep down inside and i really wanna be with her and be able to kiss her but i dnt wana scare her PLEASE HELP!!!

Answer 1

Trust me some girls are like that they will snuggle with you and hold hamds but that does not mean they like you in that way, they just feel really close. When me and my friends have sleepovers we always sleep in the same bed, but this is just cuz we are all really good freinds not cuz we like each other. Do not tell her it will ruin your friendship beyond fixing if she does not feel the same way.I have a neighbour who is 3 years younger than me and we always cuddle and she tells me i am here big sister and stuff. Also if she is really grossed out she might tell one of her other friends and that will start terrible rumors. There is nothing wrong with these feeling's but don't ruin your friend ship, it will not be worth it=(
Keep it inside and maybe she if she will ask you, if you are still frinds in 3-4 years bring it up, say you know i love you and if she sayz eww or gross say NO like a sister, give it a chance but not now, wait a bit till your friendship is stronger so it is not as easy to break, this way you can look forward to telling her and not feel so miserable
Good luck=)

Answer 2

It's okay for people of the same sex to totally admire another. It's a lot more common for girls to do this than boys. It just means you feel safe and loved by her. Apparently she values your friendship and probably won't stop being your close friend because you "think" you may have sexual feelings for her. Who knows, she may be flattered and may or may not feel the same. I don't see anything wrong with you for this. It's all part of growing up and discovering your true feelings.

Answer 3

First. Don't confuse her cuddling and holding while sleeping as if she shares the same feelings for you, other than friendship.

Second. Try to have a normal conversation and bring slowly bring the subject of girl-to-girl relations, without disclosing your interest in her.

Third: Wait until you both are old enough to do anything if you share the same interests.

Answer 4

She is a grade lower THAN you. You don't say how old you are. Maybe that doesn't matter anymore. Well it sounds like she feels the same way about you.

Answer 5

Um thats just not right 2 girls how can you be in love with a same gender,I will not even answer cause i don't know your answer cause this has never happend (mouth opens)

Answer 6

you have 2 choices....

either you can never say anything and always love her and she will never know.... which will make you feel miserable.

or you can tell her and who knows she may feel the same towards you.

Answer 7

well if you like her that bad i think youi should tell her and maybe it might end up exactly how u want it to.

Answer 8

Good for you

Answer 9

you need to study for school.

Answer 10

ask her if you feel like that