just wondering, and would u choose and older men over a younger stud? why, or why not?
2007-01-07 03:05:53 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends how old or how young....too young no....too old no.......
2007-01-07 03:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have always like older men. When I was younger I tried dating a few guys my age, but they were too wrapped up in 'being a young stud' to care about me or know how to treat a woman. The older I get the more I realize that older just gets better and better because they are more attuned to a womans needs, they listen and are truly a partner instead of trying to be a 'young stud' full of themselves and what a woman can do for them.
2007-01-07 03:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older men tend to be more mature and settled. As far as a relationship is concerned, I would probably choose an older man. If I'm just looking for someone to hook up with, I usually prefer younger men. (When I say younger, I'm talking late 20s as I am mid 30s).
2007-01-07 03:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by singleagain062005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have almost ALWAYS dated older men. With the exception of a couple guys I dated in high school, there has always been an age difference. I ended up marrying someone much older than I. This seems to be fairly common, as maturity (emotionally and mentally) levels between men and women differ so drastically.
2007-01-07 03:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 39 and I go for older men...up to 10 years older...depends on the guy...Why?...Younger men want to have and start families...I am past that now..I have a 16 year old daughter and I do not want to start over again with bottles and diapers...
Also some younger men are not mature enough for me.
2007-01-07 03:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated more older men in my life. I am now married to a man that is 17 years older than me. I married him when I was 30. When I was 22 I was dating a man that was 43. Most of the time they are more mature and understanding.
2007-01-07 03:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dana A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 23 years old and I love older men. The oldest that I would date is 40. I don't know what it is, but im attracted to them way more than younger men. Guys my age seem to not know what I want.
2007-01-07 05:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by kayla21832004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find older men much more attractive. Why? You gave a great illustration . . . "a younger stud". That kind of arrogance is a real turnoff. Most "younger studs", handle their dick like a baseball bat, worried about weight, size and swing rather than knowing what to do with it. Younger studs, usually lack social graces, and can't talk about anything but themselves. There is something powerfully attractive about a self-assured older man . . . and believe me they know they are studs without having to say it.
2007-01-07 03:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by morahastits 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it depends. older men could be ok if he is loving, understanding and mature in the outlook in life. but some older men are also immature and insecure if a woman is very young.Vice versa. Younger men are still restless and still go for some nightout as long as they like. Younger men are still immature, not all but mostly.
2007-01-07 03:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At my age, a young stud would be a welcome treat...lol
Since I am older, I find older men very attractive. : )
I like the character an older man has in his face. The fine laughter lines, etc. I like a man who is a little rough around the edges. : )
It's all about experience and character. : )
2007-01-07 03:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many!!! The main reason is the sense of security that they feel next to an older man, and let us not forget that an older man has all the experience needed to satisfy a woman. especially a young woman.
2007-01-07 03:10:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋