how do u knw if a women has faked an orgasm and why do they fake them?

Question

this is a conversation that came up on a lads nite out!

Answer 1

It's a two way street guys and your job is to really listen to her. Be patient and TAKE YOUR TIME, ask her what she wants, likes, doesn't like and again BE PATIENT. Women's bodies and midns work totally different from guys and if you want to make her happy, you'll take the time to find out what she needs. As to why they/we sometimes fake them there are all sorts of reasons. Some do it to 'get it over with' as they're not enjoying the sex or they're just plain tired. Most often though its because the woman doesn't feel comfortable (or safe) enough with you to give you the feedback you need to bring her to orgasm.

A lot of women will fake to protect their partners ego, or because they feel embarassed about being so vulnerable at the moment of orgasm. Women - you need to be more selfish and TELL the guy what you want. He won't know what to do without your direction. AND all women acheive orgasm differently! MOST women though, do not acheive orgasm from penetration alone, they need clitoral stimulation.

Guys, learn how to listen and appreciate the pleasure and power of a woman when she has an orgasm. Yours will be much better for it!

Answer 2

it would be a ll hard to know when we faked it unless we told you. We do it because some woman will never have an orgasm (its a hard life) and some men want there partner to orgasm so they will try and hold it in until the girl has hit that point. its a turn rite off when a man is lying on you saying are you nearly there yet, or, i dont think i can hold it in any more etc... get my drift? most birds will never ever climax, its a fact..... BUT faking it makes it seem real at the time x

Answer 3

Women fake orgasms because either theyre getting bored of what the guy is doing, or they want the man to feel good lyk theyve achieved something, or sometimes faking an orgasm actually help a real one happen..
but u can tell if u put ur finger in her while shes cumming it tighten and loosens and gushes and if her body trembles, and if that dont happen, then its almost definate that it didnt happen...lol

Answer 4

A woman would fake it if she didnt have the sort of relationship with her guy where she could say ' hey this isnt doing it for me - this is what i would like to do'. Sometimes women take ages to have an orgasm and they feel the guy is getting bored, or maybe he is banging away for ages and she is just fed up with it. Basically, in a nutshell, it means they cant communicate properly.

Answer 5

if you know a lot about women you would know that you can feel the contractions of the vagina when they come. they can also ejaculate but not all.
they fake them because they want the guy to hurry up, perhaps they have not paid enough attention to the lady to make her orgasm. if they are not the best lovers in the world and its not a long term relationship then it's quicker to do this, so it id over and done with. if its a long term thing you should tell them that orgasm was not achieved so each oif you can learn how to please one another.

Answer 6

hm mm well,obviously there is no physical way you could tell if a woman has faked,most women are good pulling off a good fake!Just look at the famous Meg Ryan one!The reason women might fake is because maybe The guy just didn't 'do it' for her,or maybe she just might not be ion the mood.sometimes are easier than others for us women!Not wanting to hurt someones feelings might be a reason to fake it!

Answer 7

lots of them fake it, some even have faked all of them when with someone else. Why? A variety of reasons, but most stem from their partner's inadequacy to make them climax or they just want to get it done with already. The latter is more true then the former.

Answer 8

You can tell when a woman is experiencing a real orgasm because there all signs her body will give. First off, if you are inside you will feel her vagina squeezing and releasing your penis. Second, she will get wetter. Most women fake orgasms to not hurt their partner's feelings or sometimes they're just not that into it.

Answer 9

Its impossible to tell but most women do at some stage,its very easily done,maybe had enough&just want the guy to finish or tierd or not in the mood or just simply to spare a guys feelings

Answer 10

They might be able to fake the ohh's and ahh's but they can't fake the clamy skin and the sweat and the fluids! That's a truer sign.