Help me out with this male body language please.
My boyfriend will
1-Stand in front of me while im sitting and talk to me while looking down at me
2-He will start biting his nails after we kiss or cuddle (is that like a"bono-er"thing)
3-Hes always trying to look me straight in the eyes but I've never really been comfortable looking people directly in the eyes so why does he do this?
4-If we're play fighting or something he always has to end up the winner or the one who restrains
5-Hes always saying things like"if you do that again imma tackle you but Id do it gently"
6-And we just started (french kissing) and when we're kissing hes always pushing his tounge in my mouth even when I'll back away a bit(usually when were laying down watchin a movie)
7-An we will be sitting down like on a bed and he'll like playfully push me down onto the bed and lay all his weight on me.
8-An he will get angry or ignore it if I talk about any of my guy friends
What does all this mean please help!
2007-01-07 02:55:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Basically I'm 16 he's 17 ...
Just so you have a age range in your mind set for answering.
THANKS FOR ANY ANSWERS I'LL READ THEM ALL THANKS- ASHLEY!!!
2007-01-07 02:55:51 · update #1
All of this body language and behavior seems to indicate both immaturity and aggression, which isn't uncommon in teenage boys. In short, your boyfriend is a jerk who doesn't respect you or your space. My advice? Dump the loser!
2007-01-07 02:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has control issues, he's trying to dominate you, such as standing over you and always winning. The getting angry when you talk about guys is a sure sign of that, next he'll be telling you that you can't have any guy friends.
2007-01-07 02:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by jimstock60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, Ashley, but this guy sounds like a jerk. Aside from the wanting to look you directly in the eye..that is a good thing and you need to get over that. People not looking another person in the eye is usually seen as that person lying. You need to learn to look people in the eye.
Other than that, he sounds controlling and abusive! He should never push you down and lay his full weight on top of you. That is abusive behavior. Wanting to win/restrain you is controlling/abusive. I could go on, but I think you get the point.
Dump him and get a sweet boyfriend! This guy is a loser!
2007-01-07 03:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that guy sounds a little like me. so i can help clear things up. as for number 8. i get a little jelaous wen my girlfriend talks about her guy friends or ex boyfriends. especially because i know a lot of them like her or try to flirt with her. but i don't get really pissed. as for number 7, if i ever playfully push her o nthe bed, and iwnet on top of her to kiss her or something id make sure id have at least one of my arms holding me up. can't help you with 6. sorry. for 5. we usually play fight and i'll be like "i'll fight u" and then shell be like "bring it" and just pretend then just hug her or soemthing. 4. i'm usually the winner, just the need to want to win. 3. sometimes we look at eachother straight in the eyes. 2. i bite my nails at just rando mtimes maybe he just bites his nails? 1. i do this sometimes never really means anything, but usually wen i msitting she stands over me
but don't get me wrong i'm not a controlling or abusive person. i love her more than anything. so as to other peoples responses he may not be an abusive person, i'm not syaing he isnt. he may be, but i'm not. besides my girlfriend wouldn't stand for that because heer last boyfriend was sort of abusive and she wouldn't take any of that ****.
2007-01-07 03:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by ascanio91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He wants to be the dominant in the relationship.
2. he's uncomfortable doing those things
3. he's just trying to show he really likes you(he don't know you don't like that)
4.again dominance(also it's just a guy thing...we have to win everything)
5.WIIIIIEEEERRD(no offense)
6.ususally it means he's ready for the next level in your relationship
7.who knows? just tell him to stop and it hurts
8. guys do that they don't want you cheating
2007-01-07 03:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lone Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he likes you but he's ready to go to the next step iwth you. but since your asking i assume that your not ready so let him know YOU ARE NOT READY. and if he really likes you he will wait until your ready. (if you think your ready remember that you are only 16 and besides babies and std's there are other reasons why you should realize that YOU ARE NOT READY)!!!! OH YEA AND HE IS A BIG CONTROLLING JERK WHO YOU NEED TO GET RID OF
2007-01-07 03:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a horney 17 yo who feels he has to dominate the relationship. tell him what bothers you or he can't change. then if he won't change, find a new 17yo guy.
2007-01-07 02:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋