women I date always want me to meet their children, I feel that is not right until we know that we are serious with our relationship..Help me out here right or wrong?
2007-01-07 02:54:59 · 12 answers · asked by cowboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been divorced for 3 years. My children have only been introduced to 2 men during that time. I don't think they need to meet every man I go out with. It isn't until I think the guy is going to be around for awhile that I will introduce them.
2007-01-07 03:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by singleagain062005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that man/women should not meet there childrens dates until they are satisfied that this is gonna be the one they want a true relationship . why put the children thruogh all the pain and loss if its not gonna work.
2007-01-07 10:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it should wait a while....if you get to a point in the relationship where you are thinking about permanent commitment, then yes...as you would become part of the family. But before that would not only be hard on the kids, but hard on you.
2007-01-07 10:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are serious with the relationship,only then go and meet their family.
2007-01-07 10:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is port of meeting a women that has kids and if you whant to get know someone you need to get know there kids frist and if the kids like then the women will like...
2007-01-07 11:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by pwjwjw5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, Cowboy. No need for her to confuse those kids. Women get anxious. And they look for some kind of approval from their kids. Go figure.
2007-01-07 11:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are so right...
Why drag a pile of guys through your kids lives
introduce them to partners that you are serious about only
2007-01-07 10:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait til you know if you are going to be seriously dating and being around alot. No need to get the kids involved and attached if you aren't gonna be around.
2007-01-07 11:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by balooney2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you are right..but your girlfriend is the mother of these children..and she knows what they can handle....talk about it with her.
2007-01-07 10:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by k8_nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u re right. u have to check first whether u re serious with this woman. i agree with u
2007-01-07 11:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋