Now I feel pretty stupid even asking this...but i guess my question is did she just say this to take a cheap shot at me? Maybe because she has her own low self-esteem...or because she thinks cheap shots at me will somehow get him back...They only dated for two weeks tops and he and I have been a couple for almost 4 months now, but we were friends for about 7 months prior to dating..I know I shouldnt let something someone else says bother me but it has or i wouldnt be writing this now.
2007-01-07 02:39:16 · 28 answers · asked by melodysky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Miranda, she is jealous, has low self-esteem and took a cheap shot. If your picture is real, then you are a hottie.
2007-01-07 02:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Miranda, if that is your pic, the only thing ugly is the background. You pic is hot, and she was just taking a cheap shot. She probably used the old phrase, ugly, stupid, old b itch. Well you are not stupid or old. Just a womans way to vent her anger. If you break up with your bf, can I get a shot at you? I don't go out with ugly women only hot women now. lol Why is it that some women I have dated I have told them they are really beautiful like you and they do not believe me. I guess you and others have low self esteem.
2007-01-07 02:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you got involved in a cat fight , Women are very catty
to each other in situations like this.
You know what the old saying says.. "If you cant stand the
Heat stay out of the Kitchen"
2007-01-07 02:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was your friend for months before you began dating him ... and he only dated her for 2 weeks.
This is a very easy one ... she is darn jealous!
But I am wondering if you and she were still friends when you began dating this guy and whether or not you asked her if she still cared for him before you went out with him? Had she told you she still has feelings for him (even though they are no longer dating), it would have been a sign to "tread carefully."
My feeling is that you either care more how she feels about you than how you feel about yourself OR you feel guilty going out with this guy, suspecting your friend still has feelings for him? Am I right?
It is not too late to salvage the situation (if you care to do so), but you need to decide how important your friendship with her is, and then approach it from there ... if the friendship with her is important, then attempt to kindly talk to her and acknowledge her pain. Otherwise, relinquish the friendship and stop fretting about it.
Good luck in sorting it out! :-)
2007-01-07 02:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know unless you ask her directly. Since you were friends previously, you might owe her this conversation.
Otherwise, this is one of those things to instruct yourself to let go of. It is a good discipline to tell yourself firmly that you have no place inside her head and that your own self-esteem is sufficiently high that name-calling will not hurt you or affect your relationship.
2007-01-07 02:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by grapeshenry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not going to say you are pretty no matter how pretty you are. You are in the spot she wants to be in, and that is with him. Its really not personal, if they spotted any of his other exes, she would get the same treatment. Its called envy. Why is he still talking to her anyway?
2007-01-07 02:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go... this girl is probably just jealous and she is taking a cheap shot at you. I say screw her because you got him now!
:-)
2007-01-07 02:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. I am insecure like that and you just want reassurance. Just hold you pretty face high and ignore her..but I think you already know that..good luck
2007-01-07 02:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by k8_nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her opinions dont matter none here. just worry about having a good relationship with you BF girl!!! She just ticked off that youve been with him a lot longer than she managed to keep him LOL. Ignore her and youll be fine!!!! (^_^)
2007-01-07 02:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Hexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she just thinks that of herself. she is jealous of you because now, you're dating him. Whenever somebody says something bad about you, they're just showing their true self, becasue of their low self esteem. they think it will make them be bigger, but it just makes them look stupider. like the quote "dont blow out someone elses candle to make yours shine brighter". she is just jealous, and trying to hurt you. dont be mean back, and ignore her, and she'll soon figure out that its not hurting you, so she'll get over it.
2007-01-07 02:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anastasia B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋