my gal frnd..is really very sweet
but she is very lazy
and her structure is a bit off(like she has big but size)
not an offense but i want to be with her...i want her to change
i want to give her an advice
can u help?
2007-01-07 02:23:05 · 17 answers · asked by ajay smartguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ooo Ajay jee....yaar don't take tension...love the way she is!!!!...love her for what goodness not for her size ans shape...love is from heart not from size and shape!!!...yaar love her and enjoy life!!!
2007-01-07 15:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet_Sixteen !!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can suggest without offending her is that you take up some sort of exercise program together. Whether it be jogging, a health spa, walks at night, bike riding, you get the idea...something that you'd both be into, and that you would do together.
Take care & Good Luck! :)
2007-01-07 10:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well advice her is good.But at the same time it should not hurt her and she should not misunderstand you. So tell her that it is advice and she should not get angry with you. I don't know you love her or not. But if you didn;t love her and just a friend, She can take the way you say as love. So whatever you say, Just be very clear with her and tell what you feel about her.
2007-01-07 18:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't, what ever you do, give her advise. If you don't like the way she looks then find someone else. There is nothing worse that a boyfriend/husband trying to 'give you advise' on how to change your looks. All you'll do is make her mad and make her feel like she's not good enough for you and your standards for how she should look.
2007-01-07 10:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a new girlfriend , you should like her as she is , something about her made you want her . You ever wounder if she is thinking of changing you some how , maybe there is something about you she really does not like.
2007-01-07 10:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by christina3661@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not try to change someone...Women always get a bad rap for wanting to do this....and when they finally 'change' their man...they wonder why they are not the man they fell in love with...
You either like her for who she is or not......You either accept her as she is or not...you do not change someone....to suite your needs.....
Any advice you would give her she would be insulted...(I know I would be and I would tell you where to get off at!!)....
2007-01-07 10:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you want to change a person or anything about them in the first stages of a relationship thats not good. maybe she is not the right one for you.
2007-01-07 10:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be with her.
She deserves to be with someone who wants her, not a doll they can mold and play God with.
Meanwhile, you go find someone that suits you. Don't find someone close and try and fix them, instead, move on and find someone who right the way they are.
2007-01-07 10:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kat Hopkins 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mr smart guy,
i suggest u to tell her when she in a good mood .take precautions such that she wo'not slap u.so,
all the best loverboy!
2007-01-07 10:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by khandavillimahesh k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all u need 2 be 2 close 2 her n she 2 needs 2 be close 2 u n then when she is in a gud mood n in a luvly tone jus tell her wat u want her 2 change in herself
BST OF LUCK!!!!!!!!
2007-01-07 14:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋