I have been together with my boyfriend for a year and 1/2 now...We have had some problems, but we have managed somehow to work through whatever they were. Recently, he decided to move to his dad's house (a state away from me), because he wants to start a new life because he has screwed up his life here. Anyways, he broke up with me because he says there is too much drama and he doesn't want to deal with it. As soon as he broke up with me he was like "I still love you though..." but now he says he just "doesn't love me anymore..."
I am so confused on what to do. A situation like this between us has happened before (minus the moving), but he would always say all of those things, then when we got back together he would say he neve rmeant that...
I have no idea what to do, or if I should just try to move on... I am so in love with him and it is so hard to see him leave like this...Should I just let it go and struggle through it, or try everything within my reach to make this work?
2007-01-07 02:13:53 · 8 answers · asked by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really, move on. i know you are hurt and it's easier said than done. you are a beautiful person. there is noone in the world like you. your value is immeasurable. your loving is a miracle. i would suggest just stop focusing on your unhappiness. focus on anything ANYTHING that makes you feel better. even just a little better for starters. remember also that there is so much more to life than relationships. what can you do for someone else in need? you will find a good love someday. maybe this guy needs you out of his life so he can get it together. be strong and move on. the strength you need is n there somewhere already you just have to tap into it. Remember: STOP FOCUSING ON ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU FEEL BAD. it does ;you no; good, only makes you unhappy. the choice is yours and yours alone whether or not to be happy. i have faith in you.
2007-01-07 02:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by luvspiritnature 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to move on. If you stay in this relationship you are only prolonging the heartache. Save yourself the pain and find someone else. He is just wanting you around as a option. Sad to say the situation will not change. People never do.
2007-01-07 10:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time for you to move on, yes it will hard to forget your b/f but it sounds like that is just what he is doing to you. 6 months seems like along time but it really isnt. Im sure you will be able to find someone that lives closer to you. You will always have this guy in your heart and probably have some sort of feelings for him but it is time to cut loose from him and start a new relationship. Good Luck!
2007-01-07 10:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely move on. These things will take time and be very hard to deal with but in the end you will only get hurt more often and mutiple times if you go back to him now. It will be very tough but you should just try and move on.
2007-01-07 10:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jared G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on. Spend some time though with friends and going out with them and think about things. Don't call him or get in touch with him and let him think about what he wants. Maybe he just needs some time to think about things.
2007-01-07 10:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl....seriously....why does it sound like you are the only one trying in the relationship?? You need to start making yourself happy and doing things for you. It will be hard but you need to be strong....Maybe once he sees that strength he will rethink his thinking. Until then.....he doesnt sound like he is in the relationship for you....more like a security blanket and when he feels secure with somethine else....he doesnt need you anymore. Do things for you! Be Strong and it is hard but you will make it threw.....
2007-01-07 10:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by Believe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone feel towards you the way you feel them. I think you should find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved and find a giving relationship instead of a taking one as your in.....
Move on and find real love in someone....love is kind!
Good luck
2007-01-07 10:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinoin let him go it sounds like he don't want to be with you but he tells you he loves you so you hang on to that so if he wants to come back he can because he knows you'll be waiting you shouldn't put yourself through that rollercoaster let him go
2007-01-07 10:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by mndsisco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋