How many ladies today know that it is vital for a man to seek you out. A man knows what he wants and if it's you he will ask you out. I'm always surprised at the number of women who defy this basic rule. A man must pursue the woman if she is to be held in high regard.
I know there are women who agree with me and I'd love to hear from you. I know there are many independent women who disagree and I respect that so I understand if you skip this question.
2007-01-07 02:08:01 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are absolutely right.. guys shud always always do the chasing,,,,, boys are born to run aftr girls .. hi5 !!
2007-01-07 02:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you to a point. But I don't feel that it is a hard fast rule. It is definitely nice that the guy ask the girl out but sometimes you have to take matters into your own hands and ask him out. From there if he is interested he will start pursuing the girl. Some guys may be too shy to take the first step and need the encouragement.
2007-01-07 02:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get that...but it sounds a little sexist.
Under that logic (assuming you are not a sexist), shouldn't we be pursuing men, because it is the only way for them to be held in high regard?
You want a good relationship, you both have to respect eachother. And so it's just a toss up who will do the asking.
2007-01-07 02:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kat Hopkins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think it matters in this day and age who asks out whom. However, I prefer to be asked out myself — not because it feels good for the guy, but because it feels good for me. It's a nice boost to the ego. Also, I have better things to do than pursue men. (I am an independent woman, by the way. VERY independent.)
2007-01-07 04:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a man to pursue me. That way I know he is really interested in getting to know me better. Many men like women to take the first initiative, and that is alright on both ends. But I won't 'chase' a man. I like him to show his interest first.
2007-01-07 02:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by bfwh218 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i completely agree with you and no matter what anyone says i value this rule, although some Lady's out there disagree I respect that you should keep it up it s good to see you guys fighting for some kinda equality
2007-01-07 02:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never ask a guy out...
Men like to pursue and the capture...it goes back to the days of hunting for food...Men hunted and wthe women where gathers....
I find that there is nothing sexist about having the guy ask you out...and you not asking a guy out....Some things, are better left as they are....
2007-01-07 02:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him a lone , and let him chase you , a man likes a chase . Get you the book called ( Rules Girls )
2007-01-07 02:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by christina3661@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hold true to that theory. Mind you, the dates are few but if a man wants to see me then he should ask!
Besides, I'm too old to go chasin'... : )
2007-01-07 02:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is none. It is against the law for women to NOT have equal rights, so why shouldn't we be able to ask them, we could ask them to marry us if we wanted to!!!
2007-01-07 02:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋