My parents won't let me hang out with my boyfriend outside of school, and I feel that it's hurting our relationship.
2007-01-07 01:53:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lie to them what else. Every kid goes through this you are not the first and sure wont be the last. And before any of you start giving me the thumbs down ask yourself if you ever lied to your parents . It is a necessary evil that kids must learn in order to know the shame of lying to their parents and to grow from the experiance
2007-01-07 01:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by daizzddre 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, not everyone has a boyfriend, though sometimes it may feel that way. My dad's overprotective to. But even that meathead knows I'm an independent YOUNG adult. Cause at 14, that's what you are! You're parents should understand that at this age you do have feelings for boys that you might want to take a step further, perhaps by dating. You need to let them know that you're not a little kid and that you won't let people take advantage of you. So maybe at first have a boyfriend, but leave the dating, you could possibly go out with your bf and his and your friends Hardly a proper date now is it? But, you don't need a boyfriend. I've just come out of a relationship with one of my friends, and now we hardly even speak. At the end of the day, friends are more important and having fun. You'd don't need a guy for that. It'll all end in heartbreak anyhow! From Becy- age 14
2016-05-23 02:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably feel that you're not old enough yet to be having a relationship. I don't know how old you are or how mature you are so I can't make that judgement. It's true that many parents underestimate the maturity of their children as well and would like to hold on to their little girl forever. You need to sit down and talk with them, explain that you've grown up a lot and think that you're responsible enough to have a relationship and go out on your own once in a while. Explain to them that your studies will always be most important and assure them that you will keep your marks up. Actions speak louder than words so show them you can be responsible and see what they say.
2007-01-07 01:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Geoff S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring him home a few times and let him hang out with you and your parents.
Sure this may not be fun and it may even be a little uncomfortable but once you parents see that he's a great guy and he treats you well they may ease their restrictions and let you hang out with him alone.
2007-01-07 01:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's willing to wait or not isn't your problem. i have a friend that has a boyfriend and they hardly see each other. they are trying to find out if their relationship can withstand the odds. this is because of the age difference. but, they both love each other and it seems the trials isn't affecting them much.
your parents have good intentions. follow them. compromise, if you must. talk to them, tell them your feelings. if they're not sensitive to your feelings then, tell them straight out. they won't comprehend how much they're affecting you until you actually say it. good luck.
2007-01-07 01:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by impasse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your parents get to know him, have him hang out with you at your house a few times.
2007-01-07 01:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Fatmatt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should give your parent a confidence motion about both yourself and your boyfriend, and you should introduce him to the familiy before hanging out with him; therefore, both sides, I mean your family and you, have no anxious about each other.
Thank you
2007-01-07 01:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - If your parents don't want you to, he must have presented as a bad influence...
I'd say LISTEN TO THEM.. and do things their way - they are WAY smarter then you...
failing that... have your boyfriend WORK on your parents. If... they like him they will be okay, perhaps even supportive of you seeing him.
2007-01-07 01:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can he come over and hang out at your house. that way youre parents can keep an eye on you. and after awhile he'll gain their trust and they'll let you hang out other places hopefully..
2007-01-07 01:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over to meet your parents, then it might be to your advantage.If they like him then they might allow you and him to spend time together outside of school
2007-01-07 01:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋