2007-01-07 01:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just pretend they are all naked and you'll forget about your nervousness.
2007-01-07 01:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That fear is likely from the possibility of being rejected. Girls don't want to be rejected any more than you. Just keep that in mind the next time you approach a girl.
2007-01-07 10:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by cartiphilus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! My advice is to get to know a very nice girl. One who's smart and everything. Then start dropping hints that you like her or something like that. If she likes you too, then get to know her as a friend. Most likely, the young lady will introduce you to some of her friends. In the end, girls will get to know you as a nice guy, and they will want to be around you a lot. This will reduce your fear of girls!
Another thing to keep in mind when you are around your crush, is that most likely, she likes you too! Never go for a girl you know likes you, if you don't like her. Someone very dear to me once said, "Men are like apple pickers. They know the very best apples are at the top, but before harvest time, the apples on the ground (the ones with the cuts) are easier to get to." I think this is a wonderful saying and it helps me keep my head up high. It means that you should not go for the prepy girl because you are afraid of heartbreak, you should go for that one true girl who is very close to your heart!
Remember, girls most likely, are afraid of you too! Never give up! Keep wishing! Hope that this helps! Good Luck!
2007-01-07 09:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lilla L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest try talking only to some..as a start just to practice and prepare for rejection. You need to either build confidence by surroundiing your self with things you know about and girls who have similar interests- that way you can always find something to say about what you actually know instead of searching for lame conversation starters.
2007-01-07 09:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on buddy, girls will not eat you up. Why you need to be frightened? Well, you should start talking with girls of all ages. This will be the first step you should do. If you are shy to ask them, perhaps you should just ask this simple question, "What is your hobby?"
2007-01-07 09:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by Carl R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of them as friends. i'm quite nervous around guys myself although after some time hanging around with some of them, those that were my friends, i got used to it. now and again i still get agitated although, it doesn't matter since i don't know these people.
2007-01-07 09:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by impasse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same way as you conquer any other fear. Face it briefly and repeatedly, then lengthen your exposure (okay, bad word... encounters) until you don't think of fear.
2007-01-07 09:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
women are stupid and therefore nothing to fear. just get a BJ from one and you will want to be around them all the time....
2007-01-07 09:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by Rico the Rican 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey firstly ''be yourself''..dont think bout what they thnk of you.... jus smell good, hav a good breath n focus on ur career.. rest willl follllow.. jus remembr the key is not to think bout it so much.... aurite ..
2007-01-07 09:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel confident about who you are. It is more a case of self confidence.
2007-01-07 09:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋