that I'm celebate and has been for 13 years, and don't plan to change the status intil I get married. When I tell him during dinner so he don't think he is miss lead in any way
2007-01-07 01:34:43 · 10 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not in the first date!!
2007-01-07 01:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, please......will you stop this "holier than thou thing"??? Yeah, right.....tell him during dinner! Why do you have to tell him anything? You are having dinner, sweetie....not a life long commitment. Stop thinking that he wants to get layed because he took you out to dinner. Give the guy a break. He should dump you like a hot potato. You need some classes in self-esteem.
2007-01-07 09:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely do not have to go into that on the first date or the third or the fifth. When you decide that this is someone worth dating & growing with. That this is someone you potentially could marry then I'd let them know. Be careful make sure your dating someone of equal morals as you!!
2007-01-08 19:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes to pick you up and before you leave for dinner, tell him straight up that you don't intend to have sex after dinner or until you are married.
2007-01-07 09:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him as you soon as you can find a way to slip it into your dinner conversation so if this guy is just looking for sex he won't be wasting his ti me.
2007-01-07 09:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait a little bit until you get to know him unless the subject happens to come up then i think you should break it to him easy. some guys get offened about that and then they judge you on just that. so i don't think you should tell him right away!
2007-01-07 09:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no need to say anything --- on the first dates ---- the idea of dating (so i thought) is to get to know each other --- os that in time he will find out your views
2007-01-07 09:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is personale to you, and you dont need to share that with him.If the question comes up all you need to say to him is that you dont feel comfortable with that conversation.
2007-01-07 09:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time seems appropriate. Dont just blurt it out as soon as he opens his mouth!
2007-01-07 09:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Belinda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight away... and prepare for a long dry spell...
2007-01-07 09:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋