I happened to meet a girl where she works & asked her out and she said she already had a boyfriend--one she didn't seem interested in. I was thinking of sending her flowers to her place of employment as shock value in hopes that it would change her mind. Should I go for it or should I just let go and move on. I don't want her to think I'm some sort of wierdo since she told me of some stories of other people she met on the job who made her feel uncomfortable.
2007-01-07 01:25:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any one that will leave their current beau for a new one...
Will leave you for another new one. It's been done and done and done. People will repeat themselves.
Also, she is totally flirting with others since she's attracting so much "unwanted attention" is this how you want your girlfriend to act?
Because if you did win her over....wouldn't she still be over at her job, acting disinterested with her bf and attracting all various types of men? Sure she would.
It is just a type of woman. There is a male version of this too.
These people are trouble!! They are never happy with anyone and are always flirting around in search of something better.
Keep your flower money for a nice girl that will treat you right.
this one won't.
2007-01-07 01:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what: get to know them personally. You want a relationship built on friendship rather than hormones. If I'm wrong and your rules of attraction state that being hot is #1, then go to an underage dance club. You will be able to tell single girls from "taken" girls. How? The guy will be in tow. Back to building a relationship on friendship first, if you become friends ( she might evaluate her current relationship. I'm not talking about best friends in the world, just enough to where you like each other enough to talk and perhaps hang out. If she thinks you have more to offer and she has a brain, she will dump current guy for you. If she dumps current boyfriend for you, stay away from him or be prepared to resort to face damaging tactics if he gets angry and attacks.
2016-05-23 02:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not send her flowers at work? She has already said she has a boyfriend. If you are really interested wait about 6 months and ask her out again. Sometimes things aren't as solid as they appear. If she says no again, move along.
2007-01-07 01:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Vernita B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would she have a boyfriend who she "doesnt seem interested in"? that doesnt make sense. If you find out that she has become single at some point, then ask her out again, but not before; otherwise she will think your a freaky stalker. since youve already made your feelings known to her, she would've dropped her boyfriend and went out with you if she was really interested.
2007-01-07 01:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by mickey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thirty years ago i would have said Go for it! Perseverance often pays off, and back then women appreciated men who showed a little aggressiveness. Nowadays, if you ask a person the second time you get labeled a stalker. For safety's sake, I suggest you look elsewhere. But, if you really like her, be subtle, but let her know you;re still interested. Who knows, she may be one of those throwbacks who understands the difference between a man and a pervert.
2007-01-07 01:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by mrjones502003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait a while before trying again. The flowers would probably just make sure she didnt want to go out with you, even if she broke up with her boyfriend, if she said no, she means it, and you should give her some room.
2007-01-07 01:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by rosy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes leave her alone and move on since stalker laws vary from state to state there's no telling how much time you'll have to serve in prison.
2007-01-07 01:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I would respect the fact that she is already in a relationship. You can monitor the situation and if she becomes available then you can ask again.
2007-01-07 01:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should let go an move on, she said she has a boyfriend so walk away...
2007-01-07 01:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's bad karma!
How would you like it if someone tries to steal your girlfriend?
If she doesn't want to be with him, then she will leave him in her own time. Respect others relationships.
2007-01-07 01:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by CHERRYBLOSSOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋