I've been dating this guy for 2 months and we have slept together a couple of times. But it hurts when he enters me. How can I relax and make it enjoyable for both of us?
2007-01-07 01:17:56 · 9 answers · asked by erin1225 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have something to drink first. You don't have to get drunk, just a few glasses of wine will relax you just enough. Once you have been sleeping together for awhile you'll feel more comfortable and relax naturally.
You may also want to try using some kind of lube to reduce friction and pain; skin cream will work.
2007-01-07 01:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by skatc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of sex as test that you must excel but as a mutual gift full of love. Take a deep breath and relax ...
Nobody will judge you or give you a grade!
2007-01-07 09:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE needs to spend more time exciting you -- there is such a thing as foreplay and it makes the whole experience much more interesting --- more guys should try it
2007-01-07 09:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all seriousness....Practice with yourself and a vibrator....
It will help with the pain in the future with your partner and will also teach you what and where you like to be touched.
2007-01-07 09:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get lubricated first and then gont get it in so fast, n just relaxe..
2007-01-07 09:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more frequent practice, plenty of lube.
2007-01-07 09:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try interspecies erotica first. a donkey might help
2007-01-07 09:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by glitter l 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try caltex advance
2007-01-07 09:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by ImGodgifted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM me
2007-01-07 09:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by SKINNY BONES 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋