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time with him.I think he's hot,sexy,SMART,brave everythin i ever wanted in a man.Might i be in love ? what do u think ? I LOVE kissing him.Also,I LOVE his personality.He's very charming,sweet,respectful,and very caring to me . What could be another signs, that i might be in love ??

2007-01-07 01:16:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Your Avatar photo is that of a guy and you are referring to a guy.....if you are gay then just do whatever....no one cares.

2007-01-07 01:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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2016-12-28 07:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

So far, you are infatuated. Do you accept him unconditionally? Do you try to change him or take him as he is? Can you accept his past without hesitation? Can you forgive? Can you communicate? Can you be yourself around him? Do you do things for him without expecting anything in return? Do you look in his eyes and want to cry just because it feels so awesome? If you tell him you love him and he can't say it back, will you still love him? If you answer NO, then you do not love him.

2007-01-07 01:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 0 0

LOVE SUCKS..RUN RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN..IT WILL SUCK YOU N SPIT YOU OUt. Next thing u know he will cheat on you with someone younger n better. you will gain 100 depressing pounds cause u will discover ben n jerrys is your only friends...n by the way Rachel N watchs way to much dr. phil cause that sounds like some of his ****.

2007-01-07 01:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by cassie s 1 · 0 0

I think love, as most all of us think of and experience, is something which is really very selfish. I don't think we fall in love with people, but rather the feelings we get from them.

When we think of the word "love," a lot of things may come to mind, but probably the most dominant is our own - unfortunately often lusty - emotion. I think we fool ourselves (subconsciously) into thinking that we love a person because of them. Because of "who they are," because we relate, because we're different, because we struggle and rise together. Really, though, it is not about them; it is about us. We really love the emotions this person makes us feel, and we try to hide from that truth through attempting to validify the lie by saying, "I love this that and the other thing about this person. I really do..." I'm not going to doubt that this cannot and has not been the case, but that it is indeed much less often the case than loving the feelings brought to us through interaction with them.

All of that said, I think this makes it clear why we get depressed and saddened in relationships. When we aren't recieving the self-gratifying feelings and emotions that interacting with the person produces, depression ensues. But what are we really depressed about? What are we really missing & longing for? The feeling; the emotion that they feed us. And while we are grateful for the feeder (aka the person we "love") - or at least hopefully most of us are (heh) - the reality is all we really care about is that we are being fed. Anyone can be feeding us, as long as we're getting it. It doesn't matter what spoon you use, just as long as you get fed, and that you get fed what you like, of course.
But back to the depression... We become so dependent on that person as our source of happiness and fulfillment that when that source is gone or ceases for a time, we don't know what to do. We begin to starve because we don't know how to feed ourselves.

So this brings me to two main points:

We MUST learn not to depend on others to make us happy. We have to learn to be totally independent in this. We have to learn to feed ourselves.

and - Only after we are whole in this respect, loving ourselves and not relying on anyone else for this love at all, only then can we really love another person. Love them truely for who they are rather than who we are when we're with them.

This all begs the question: What is real love? And how do we stop this selfish, distructive behaviour?

These are all reasons that I really don't want to be in a relationship right now and intend on waiting until later in my life, when I have hopefully developed in this area, to have a partner. I think a relationship including two people with the same realisation and understanding is a true partnership. Any relationship (intimate or otherwise, just to remind us all) not built with this foundation cannot be a real partnership. That is because we are only in it for self-gratification and any giving we do in the "give & take" part is ultimately to keep this source in our life.

Another thing this brings to mind is the guilt many of us experience when a relationship is deteriorating or done with. Many of us often blame ourselves and find mistakes we made that may have contributed to or caused the breakdown of the relationship. While some of these things may indeed be parts of our personality that we should work on improving/changing in order to better ourselves, I think some of them - for instance holding back from doing certain things or rejecting certain ideas/impulses/expectations are deep intuation coming up. Something is off and we sense this, but we can't put our finger on it. This something is selfishness. That deep knowing that this can't be forever or be stable because it is imposible without self-love first.

So we should examine situations to differentiate between the two. To identify our flaws (for lack of a better word) and to identify what may have been this instinct that we heeded and should actually look at positively rather than feeling guilty about it.

2007-01-07 01:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 1 0

You're in love, I dont think you need any more signs to tell you

2007-01-07 01:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0 0

yes you are, so dont look back, keep fighting for ur love!!!!!

2007-01-07 01:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

good luck sweety :)

2007-01-07 01:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 0 0

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