When I stay with my boyfriend on weekends, we have sex during the day which is O.K. with me. But, he often waks me up for sex in the middle of the night or in the very early morning when I'm still half asleep. Should I let him, or should I tell him I need more sleep. (I don't want to lose him or make him upset if I say yes).
2007-01-07 01:00:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all I'd stop having sex with me till he put a RING on my finger. He's having too much fun. You could say I'm just too tired/sleepy to enjoy this moment together when he does that. Once you get married (if he pops the question) he may not ask as often.
2007-01-07 01:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waking up anyone in the middle of the night for self-serving reasons is freakin' RUDE! Nothing is more irritating than being yanked out of a good, deep sleep by someone shaking you awake for anything other than a big emergency. The need for sex is not a big emergency.
But hey, some women don't mind being awakened in the middle of the night for sex...if you're horny, you're horny. But if it pisses you off then you should tell him to knock it off. If you don't, you're only going to get more and more fed up with it...and I get the feeling he wouldn't pick up on that unless you got visibly angry.
2007-01-07 01:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by ardra71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!!! Middle of the night sex is the best! When you're half asleep your senses are heightened and it feels more erotic and sensual. You can always go back to sleep later if you need to. And there's no feeling like waking up with your man inside you. Go for it, girl, you don't know what you're missing!
2007-01-07 01:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all up to you. Make sure he respects your wishes or he will just star thinking of you as just a sex object. Set some guidelines. Be fair but he has to be fair to you also.
2007-01-07 01:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok once in awhile but not all th time. I know I get the urge in the morning but I know girls like their sleep too. Compromise!
2007-01-07 01:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say try it once. You actually might enjoy it. Try doing something different once in a while. Keeps things intresting
2007-01-07 01:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you feel.. be honest.. who really cares if he gets upset.. if you lose him over something so silly.. then you didn't need him anyway
2007-01-07 01:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by lilmisscantbewrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't have sex during the day, if you love this guy you've got to tell him or you'll lose him anyway i don't
2007-01-07 01:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my dear u should lest him do that and try to enjoy the unexpected sex. and u will find it great
2007-01-07 01:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by solid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you need some rest........at all times you two can do it but try to rest...........;-)
2007-01-07 01:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by ChoEEy ChocO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋