Help I need to know what his body language means?

Question

Help me out with this male body language please.
My boyfriend will
1-Stand in front of me while im sitting and talk to me while looking down at me
2-He will start biting his nails after we kiss or cuddle (is that like a "bono-er" thing)
3-He's always trying to look me straight in the eyes but I've never really been comfortable looking people directly in the eyes so why does he do this?
4-If we're play fighting or something he always has to end up the winner or the one who restrains
5-Hes always saying things like"if you do that again imma tackle you but I'd do it gently"
6-And we just started (french kissing) and when we're kissing he's always pushing his tounge in my mouth even when I'll back away a bit (where usually laying down watchin a movie when that happens)
7-And we will be sitting down like on a bed and he'll like playfully push me down onto the bed and lay all his weight on me.
What does all this mean please help me!!
Thanks Ashley~~

Basically I'm 16 he's 17 ...
Just so you have a age range in your mind set for answering.

Answer 1

I am a woman so this is my slant.

He is struggling with his male inner feelings to dominate and control. Not all males have this as strong as your guy. But some way more than yours.

All of the behaviors you mention are part of his struggle to control himself, while at the same time remain comfortable in his own body.

I honestly think a 17 year old Male's body is roaring with hormonal urges to have sex. If you have not had sex, then he's getting really aggressive urges to complete the act.

Cool off on the heavy physical contact. Just back off a bit. Tell him how much you care for him (if you do) But he is getting into a danger zone with you an all of this forcing himself on you.
You are too young to recognize what all of this means. Hence your question. He will most likely resist any attempt by you to cool things down. So get some help from family or friends if he gets more aggressive like coming over when not invited and so forth.
Unless you are ready to have sex. Cool things off, for the sake of both of you. This is pretty much playing with fire. Someone is likely to get burned.
This is an adult situation that two teens are in that they aren't ready for. Wait until you are sure about yourself before you get into this behavior again.

You are perfectly normal and healthy in every way. Just cool off.

Answer 2

Be VERY careful because most of those are dominating displays. Dominating is NOT what you want in a relationship. Protection? Yes. Respect? Yes. He also does not respect you when he french kisses and you pull away and he still does it.
You are likely in for a rough road if you continue to allow the domination. You don't have to "win" any fights but you do need to let him you know you don't feel safe (or however all this makes you feel) and tell him you are frightened if that's how you feel.
BTW, you are a VERY impressive young lady to be sensitive to these things. I'm awed. You're GOOD.

Answer 3

some of what he does according to the way you describe it seems like it is saying i am insecure so i must be with out question the dominant one in this relationship.
other things he says seem to me to be indications that he is young and just learning about the physical aspects of being with a girl. i am not referring to sex.
i am thinking he might be fine if he has no sisters or no sisters near to his age that he might have had play fights with so he just didn't get the chance to learn and practice all of this fooling around.
i think that if he does have a sister that he would have had play fights with then this seems like a slight indication that he might
get rougher then anyone should as a result of his insecurity.
you might do well to go slow with this guy and i think one day soon take him aside from your friends note here the public part .
and discuss this with him fully mention everything you have written in your question and see what his reaction is and what if any change there is in his behaviour.
i really hope that if you two break up and i think at your age that is more then likely at some point that you dont do or say anything about this that would result in other girls thinking he is a wife beater in the waiting. i think he is more likely a nice guy that just needs some straight up training in how to do all of this stuff the right way.
oh bitting his nails that is a bad habbit and i think is something he does when he is nervous or fustrated, but it is just a bad habbit i think you should help him with that one too

Answer 4

It sounds like he is asserting dominance over you. Or at least, he's trying to in a very half-assed manner. Items #1, #4 and #7 tell me this immediately.

Items #2 and #3 seem to reinforce the fact that he's not very confident in himself, and he's trying to build it up by using you for practice. If he remains unassertive with others but finds himself having too much success with you, then this is how verbally or physically abusive relationships can start. People can start taking their inability to deal with others out on their bf/gf if they let the aggressor get away with it.

As long as he keeps it playful or relatively unobtrusive, then I wouldn't worry.

Answer 5

Well lets look at the answer one by one...
1) He is looking down on u to show his dominance over you.
2)Sounds like he nervous about what to do!
3)He is looking at your eyes trying to read you in some way.
4)Again he is showing his dominance through his strength
5)He way of feeling you up....just plainly put
6)He is forceful even when you re-treat.....dominance again.
7)And again holding you down with his weight dominance.

To some this up from a guy's point of view....he is bad news and going to be very controlling with you....get out early....and don't let him have the prize or it will be harder getting rid of him...

Hope it helps

Answer 6

1. hes basically tryin to show his power by lookin down at you
2. no clue
3. people do this to see if someone is tellin the truth. if you dont make eye contact, he might think you're lying
4. again he's showin the he dominates the relationship
5. he has feelngs for you and so he's tryin to say that even if he fights or argues with you, he'll make sure you dont get hurt
6. maybe he gets carried away
7. he's probably makin a move on you. physical attraction

if i were you, i'd dump him. you dont wat to get caught up with a man who might hurt you, physically or mentally

Answer 7

Basically, get rid of him

He's got hidden aggression, he wants to dominate you ... and he's sexually frustrated

You know that, that's why you are looking for confirmation

Answer 8

It means you don't need to have boys over when your parents are not home.

Answer 9

Sounds like he really likes you.

Answer 10

that is a relationship in jeopardy