I've pondered keeping a mail order bride in my closet or bathroom, but beyond the cost of food and dodging the INS I'm concerned about the feelings of the woman.
If I bring her over here, is she looking at being affectionate with me as a sacrifice she grudgingly has to make, or is it possible that she will love me?
I have very little money but since very few of them speak English I think I can just sort of obfuscate and confuse them when she has concerns about living in squalor and only eating occasionally.
Is she better off with me, here in my poor little poopy apartment, or is she better in her homeland? Please help I am so lonely.
2007-01-07 00:44:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In the first place you need money. Most of them are seeking a plane ticket, then there is immigration and after all this, agreat per centage of them leave the guy after two years or they obtain naturilization. Pleas do somthing else. We are already supporting to many of these folks on our welfare dockets. I have experience with this.
2007-01-07 00:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by pro1fit1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is willing to come over and marry you then of course sex would be involved. If your kind to her and you both do in up loving each other she won't care where you live, apartment or home. She is looking for a way out of what ever mess she is in in her country so your concerns of her being better off elsewhere have no foundation. If she is old enough to make this type of decision about her life then respect it and go for it.
Keep in mind...most only use the man to get here and get citizenship...so if you're doing this because your lonely...plan on being lonely again.
I suggest getting out and meeting people in your own country. If your brave enough to take a stranger into your home then your brave enough to go in your own neighborhood and find a good woman that won't need you for what you can do for her but will need you because she really loves you.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
2007-01-07 00:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by EchoAnn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you can work on your living situation and if you work on that then maybe you could find a girl here who you wouldn't have to pay for think of it that way and mail order brides aren't the way to go and with your situation that is just plain wrong to make her come here and then give her little food and a dump to live in no she is better in her homeland and you need to just work on either doing better at your job to get more money or finding a job so you would have money and then you can date women who are already here, best of luck
2007-01-07 00:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by JennLee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you don;t have to worry about getting a mail order bride over here--first you will need money--second you;ll need to have a life---what you need is a goat and not a very smart one at that---most likely a goat would leave you for a better closet.
2007-01-07 01:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you are funny and answered you rown questions. Bring her over you know America is the land of dreams. Once she is here she will leave you for someone with money, a nice house and a car that does not require a jump start.
2007-01-07 00:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by CrzyCowboy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My friend went for a mail order Bride. Two years later she divorced him after he bought the house and wanted half. She used him just to get to the States.
What I have to say about mail order Brides. Make sure you stamp return to sender if its spoiled.
2007-01-07 00:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get a life! You have to be able to bring them over here, and they can say no to you. Also you are very uneducated some of them if not most of them do speak english you big oaf. Get a life and stop making up fake unhuman questions.
2007-01-07 00:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by WINGS 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get yourself a Barbie Doll.
2007-01-07 00:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
if she loves u truly will be with u even u are poor, and believe me it's will be diff cult if u are poor inside, but i think u are rich inside that's it's rare to find it in this world.
if she loves u she will live with u in the garden but u both happy, so just ask her and check if she loves u truly from her answer..
the money come and goes but the love will be forever.
2007-01-07 00:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
if u have little money dont even think about mail order brides
2007-01-07 00:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋