he needs kissing lessons and that's the reason I want to dump him.
2007-01-07 00:26:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lead him with your kissing. Start by cupping his face with your hands and lean in slowly. Dont kiss him fast. Start with smaller softer kisses with no tongue and while moving your hands to the back of his neck gradually start to lead with your tongue and hopefully he will start to follow your technique. If this doesnt work flat out tell him his lip lock needs work and teach him how you want it to be done. More often than not, men like it when you tell them how you like it done ;)
2007-01-07 00:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by sinistersister69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't TELL him he's a bad kisser, then how could he possibly know? You can't expect him to magically pick up on something like that.
If you told him this and he didn't care enough to improve his kissing technique, then that's a good sign that he doesn't care much about pleasing you. And that is a much better reason to dump him than the fact that he just doesn't kiss proficiently.
But what if you did tell him, and he essentially said "Okay then...teach me!" What if he put forth the time and effort to learn how to kiss better, and it completely changed your outlook on him? Then dumping him summarily would have been a serious mistake.
Don't say "Honey, you suck at kissing and you need kissing lessons". Just tell him that you like to be kissed *differently*, and show him how. If he wants nothing to do with it or gets offended easily, then do what you have to do.
2007-01-07 08:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by ardra71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me tell you that;
If you like him because of his personality, which is the most important thing btw, you should try to talk to him about the bad kissing thing. It can sound rude at first, but he needs to know why you're not 100 percent happy with him. I mean, do you really think that if he knows you enough he hasnt noticed you dont enjoy kidding him that much!?
Anyway, in the end he will understand, even if he kind of feels upset at first, and you can always offer him lessons kissing, cant you? ;D
I guarantee you it will make him feel way better.
Oh, and if you dont really like him that way, you're just going out w/ him because he's hot, well, the world's full of hot guy+excellent kissers!
best wishes
tell about it in the end
byes
2007-01-07 08:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by Griff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. Kissing is such a big part of getting turned on and when you have someone that is a bad kisser, it ends all that could have been. You CAN'T teach a bad kisser to kiss good because that is how they feel/kiss. It will not be natural. I was in your shoes. Unfortunately, I had to dump him. It just really turned me off.
2007-01-07 08:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Weasel Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, really, if he's that hot get back to him in a few years (or months) after he's learned his lessons...
2007-01-07 08:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by queen bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be a really shallow person to dump someone because they are not a good kisser. you can always teach someone how to kiss... tell him what he needs to do.
2007-01-07 08:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to teach him how you want to be kissed.. i wouldnt dump him though, it just seems a bit of a bad reason to dump someone
2007-01-07 08:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him that he needs to get better at his kissing... But that's no reason to leave anyone even though I have never had that problem so I don't know...
2007-01-07 08:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by Love Hurtz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him kissing lessons if he's hot.
2007-01-07 08:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u gonna dump him
r u a heart breaker for kissing?
teach him
2007-01-07 08:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by LiTlE mIsSy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋